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Doesn't have to be a big thing! For me, I just managed to handle an entire move all on my own, without help from friends or family.

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[–] chloyster 22 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I finally got myself to work on voice training exercises at home 😌

[–] UngodlyAudrey 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's been something I've been struggling with just to start. It's been almost two years now and I'm sick of boymoding. Kinda surprised nobody's said anything about my breasts, because I don't think I'm fooling anyone anymore. You can do it!

[–] chloyster 7 points 1 year ago

Thank you! I believe in you too! I was boymodeing until verrrry recently. I was closeted for years. Never too late though, youve got this πŸ€—

[–] s0phia 5 points 1 year ago

Congrats!! I've been procrastinating for 2 years, maybe it's time to start too.

[–] liz1328 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've been on and off voice training for ages. It really makes my dysphoric and I can't manage to do it consistently :(

[–] chloyster 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

πŸ«‚ I know what you mean. I hate listening to my recordings πŸ˜”. I hope you'll be able to do it someday. I believe in us <3

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[–] LucyLastic 5 points 1 year ago

Well done, keep that momentum up! Improving oneself is an investment in the future that's always worthwhile

[–] Horik@kbin.social 19 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I responded to someone's call for help (assistance, not life-critical), even though I had just gone to sleep. Got up, dressed, went out into the world, and met someone to get tools to help someone who still relies on me.

Yay, me. :)

[–] LucyLastic 6 points 1 year ago

You'll be able to carry around that warm fuzzy feeling from helping someone in need for quite a while - well done!

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[–] Lionir 18 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Um, well, helping with Beehaw. Many projects I've seen to fruition that are pretty cool like docs.beehaw.org and the demographics survey.

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[–] SemioticStandard 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wrote a short story I was really happy with. I mean, I'm always writing something, but I'm usually kind of 'meh' about what I come up with. Every once in a while, though, I write something and I just know that it's good, like I can feel it, and I can say to myself, 'yeah, this is really hitting the mark.' As a writer, I'm always chasing that feeling. It's like a drug. So last night I wrote 2,000 words of a new 3,500 word story that just came to me, all in one shot, like a vision, and I'm so enjoying how this one is coming together.

[–] LucyLastic 4 points 1 year ago

That sounds very rewarding (coming from someone who sometimes thinks about writing, though I lack the commitment).

Are there any Lemmy communities for short stories where you can share it?

[–] JuniperusVox 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I applied for a great job that I'm definitely not qualified for, and I'm through the first two rounds of interviews. I didn't even think I'd go to the first interview purely because of my agoraphobia, so I'm proud of myself for pushing through it.

[–] marco 6 points 1 year ago

Fing imposter syndrome! Good luck!

[–] marin 13 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I just got hired! Just need to process some papers which will hopefully be quick but I just landed my first job!!

[–] UngodlyAudrey 6 points 1 year ago

I'm so happy for you!

[–] LucyLastic 5 points 1 year ago

Nice! I hope it goes well and you learn lots of useful skills from it, I'm old and still use things that I learned from my first job

[–] Wigglet 4 points 1 year ago

Congratulations 🎊

[–] TheGiantKorean 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I got a glowing review from work (I was promoted 6 months ago) by both my boss and boss' boss. '

[–] ConstableJelly 4 points 1 year ago

I hate to admit it but it's pretty amazing the impact on your confidence that feeling good about work can have.

[–] ondoyant 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

i built a rigid heddle loom and wove myself a scarf! it sucks and is super wonky looking but i love it, and its been neat learning about how weaving works and the history of textiles and all that junk. did you know that weaving is one of the oldest crafts in the world? we were doing it back in the paleolithic, like 27,000 years ago! its very neat. it took me like a month to build the loom, and a few days to weave the scarf, and its the first time i've felt this much consistent focus on a hobby in a long time. it also coincides with me getting new brain pills (and estrogen) that are working really well at restoring my passion for life.

[–] LucyLastic 4 points 1 year ago

Awesome, well done! A photo of the scarf would be good to see

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[–] RadioRat 11 points 1 year ago

I started processing trauma memories and working on maladaptive survival behaviors in January. Running and dissociating always seemed better for some reason.

I guess I was afraid I’d learn that I deserved abuse growing up. It turns out that it wasn’t about me at all.

Mindfulness practice has brought more agency and intention to my life. Despite this being the hardest and most painful thing I’ve done, it’s also been one of the most rewarding.

[–] alottachairs 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

WOW! That's a pretty big undertaking to move by yourself. I'm teaching myself a new skill to change careers, although I haven't gotten there yet, I'm proud that I'm taking myself seriously now.

[–] UngodlyAudrey 5 points 1 year ago

Nice! Best of luck to you. :)

[–] LucyLastic 4 points 1 year ago

Switching careers is scary as anything, but well worth it ... first careers are a matter of guesswork, but with more experience you can make good choices that really help. Keep at it!

[–] Sharkfur 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I played a concert with my orchestra today and absolutely nailed my solo.

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[–] Nyoelle 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It is not as much as others, but:

  • I actually submitted something that resembles a game, though, more of a prototype, to a lisp game jam that happened a while ago
  • This time I pulled off in total, 60 hours of reading, books.
  • I am still studying Japanese daily
  • Still alive :D
[–] gromnar 4 points 1 year ago

Those are all nice things, the last one in particular deserves a lot of praise!

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[–] TimTheEnchanter 9 points 1 year ago

Everyone in this thread, you’re doing amazing things!

[–] pandaontoast 9 points 1 year ago

About 3 months ago I finally started HRT after several years of being too scared!

[–] cnnrduncan 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I passed my cell and molecular biology paper (which was pretty hard and mostly irrelevant to my consumer food sci degree ) and found out that the one paper I managed to pass during the year I was fucked up by SSRIs means that I've already met all the requirements for my minor!

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[–] Jimbob0i0 8 points 1 year ago

Went out to buy fem clothing and took them into the fitting rooms, even with the looks from some people.

For what it's worth felt super cute and picked them up...

[–] Thevenin 8 points 1 year ago

After years of yearning, I finally worked up the nerve to take a pottery class! And I think I nailed my first attempt, too.

[–] God-Is-Love@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I stayed calm and didn't retaliate when someone went crazy road rage on me πŸ˜‚

[–] TMoney 4 points 1 year ago

That's a massive struggle for me. I love getting angry. lol

[–] LucyLastic 7 points 1 year ago

Well done on doing your move, it's a big and stressful task ... the only time I moved on my own was when I threw everything I cared about in a car and ran away, but I don't think that counts, lol

[–] marco 7 points 1 year ago

My daughter got a little overwhelmed towards the end of her first year in high school.

I walked her through the steps of finishing that one assignment she had mostly done, but hadn't turned in yet just before the last day of school. Just learned she's now getting a B instead of a C yay!

[–] TMoney 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I've been trying to make myself handy to save money and I was able to change out my rear coils and front CV axles on my land cruiser recently. It was a huge pain in the butt and took me 3 days, but I made it. haha

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[–] Timmy 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Solo travel with an anxiety disorder. Getting pushed out of that comfort zone, but I still choose my own adventures. It's freeing and I hope it will promote some personal growth.

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[–] gromnar 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hey, an entire move by oneself is on my personal definition of "big things"!

[–] UngodlyAudrey 4 points 1 year ago
[–] suddenlythequietrose 6 points 1 year ago

I got back into brewing kombucha lately and it's been really satisfying. Some of my favorite flavors I've done recently include: green tea blueberry lavender, apple cinnamon (like an apple pie), raspberry lemonade, cherry limeade, Ginger lime mule, and I'm looking into making an imitation cola.

[–] EremesZorn 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Completed my trade apprenticeship and am moving into a nice apartment in a great neighborhood. Life is good.

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[–] jennifilm 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’ve just built and launched a new site for my work! It’s something we’ve been trying to do for literally years and about a month ago I decided to just sit down and do it myself, and I’m so glad I did.

[–] marco 4 points 1 year ago

Nice work! Sent it to my friend in the area :)

[–] LucyLastic 4 points 1 year ago

The thing I've done recently that I'm proud of - I recently got a small promotion at work and ended up with a bit of time on my hands, which I've used to develop a simple database to handle parts tracking, ordering, and do some basic reporting. I've been out of IT for many years so it's nice to feel like I haven't completely lost my skills, plus it's really helping my team :-)

[–] radiojosh 4 points 1 year ago

I built a big wooden thing that hangs in front of the window in my garage. It supports a huge window air conditioner. It has heavy duty drawer slides, so you can push the air conditioner out the window when you want to cool the garage, or pull it in when you want to close up shop. It's almost done.

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