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[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)
[–] white_nrdy@programming.dev 7 points 1 month ago

"Hey hey wait. Let's throw in one It's Not Unusual"

Instrumental version of Tequila

[–] higgsboson@dubvee.org 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Bloodhound Gang - A Lapdance Is So Much Better When the Stripper is Crying

https://m.soundcloud.com/bloodhound-gang/a-lap-dance-is-so-much-better

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 2 points 1 month ago

I find it quite a thrill...

[–] LuxSpark@lemmy.cafe 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 7 points 1 month ago

That's a sing-along song in our local bar, lol!

[–] Nusm@yall.theatl.social 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald by Gordon Lightfoot. A jaunty little sea shanty about a ship sinking in a storm and killing everyone on board.

https://youtu.be/FuzTkGyxkYI

[–] The_Che_Banana 4 points 1 month ago

Wouldn't work as I'd be singing along

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[–] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 10 points 1 month ago

Urgh just whatever I think might be fun at the time, it's always bad

[–] hihi24522@lemm.ee 8 points 1 month ago
[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago

Somebody that i used to know

[–] Albbi@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 month ago

Goodbye my Lover by James Blunt would work to kill a hyped up mood.

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 7 points 1 month ago

I repeat the last song.

Or anything from an obscure screamo band.

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 month ago

the internationale

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Skua@kbin.earth 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

If you're in Scotland when you do this people will sing along with you

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

then I could use the renunciation, a wobbly song to the same tune

[–] Skua@kbin.earth 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I remember the first time my then-girlfriend, who was American, heard God Save the Queen while here in the UK. It was an instrumental version and she had no idea why they were playing My Country 'tis of Thee in a situation where you would expect a national anthem

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[–] damdy@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago

Right now, as someone not from the US, star spangled banned would ruin the evening more than anything else I could think of. Everyone can recognize it, arguments would follow.

[–] HeartyOfGlass@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago

The Mountain Goats' "No Children", but very intensely.

[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Saw this irl once. Two dudes, totally tone-deaf decide to sing Aqualung by Jethro Tull...

...as a duet.

[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 month ago

Same bar had a dude that would sing Disney princess songs every night. He never went home alone.

Shout out to Dante's in Seattle!

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 month ago

We Are the World which might be fine if everyone in the bar was fifty-plus, but wouldn't work today.

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 5 points 1 month ago

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald. It's a Debbie Downer of a song, it lasts forever, and it gets really repetitive.

[–] CaptKoala@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Wrecking Ball- Miley Cyrus.

I could butcher anything, but that, I'll butcher it with glee.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

If you would have said Party in the USA, I would be up there butchering it with you.

[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Alice’s restaurant- Arlo Guthrie

[–] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago

If that kills the vibe, you got the wrong crowd.

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago

I worked with a 17 year old once who knew the entire lyrics to Alice's Restaurant and would recite them, not sing them, in the most deadpan voice.

I miss that guy.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago
[–] RobotToaster@mander.xyz 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Woman Is The N***** Of The World

(Although anything by John Lennon would probably work lol)

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[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

In the UK any of the below should do the trick, with the added bonus of possibly getting you stabbed and/ or glassed:

Gary Glitter - My Gang

Rolf Harris - Jake the Peg

Lostprophets - Last Train Home

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

Windmills of Your Mind - Noel Harrison

Or you can kill the vibes despite the song. Just start sobbing in the middle of Space Jam.

The real issue is finding a song that they might actually have that would sour the mood. GG Alin's "work" are all easy picks, but nowhere is going to have that available for karaoke (and if they do, run).

[–] tenchiken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

Dead puppies

[–] iii@mander.xyz 3 points 1 month ago

The ISIS song

[–] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago
[–] harrys_balzac@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

Blurred Lines

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago

Meat Loaf - I'd Do Anything For Love - the original album version where there's around 20s of motorcycle sounds and vocals start around 1:50.

[–] Alice 3 points 1 month ago

Had a woman invite me out to karaoke, but I don't think we're compatible long term so I'm taking notes from this thread.

the cure - killing an arab

[–] LunarLoony@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 month ago

A Passion Play.

The entire thing. Including the Hare Who Lost His Spectacles.

(Side note: I love this album, but as a karaoke performance I can't imagine it'd go down well)

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 2 points 1 month ago

I did this with “Everybody Hurts”. Everybody went outside.

[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 2 points 1 month ago

The Smallest Church in Saint-Saens

[–] jwt@programming.dev 2 points 1 month ago
[–] apotheotic 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)
[–] Alice 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Could also do The New Adventures of Winnie the Pooh theme, another actually good song that reverts the crowd to sleepy five-year-olds

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