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Please don't think I'm here to complain about rizz or skibidi toilet etc. Thats all fine by me.

The term I dislike strongly is 'eeeh' before you make a statement disagreeing with someone. (This is over text only). Now maybe I've been pavloved bc it's always used by someone disagreeing. But I'm happy with people disagreeing with me normally its just the 'eeeh' or 'erm' that annoys me.

So what's a random term that annoys you?

PS. Saying "eeeh actually 'eeh' is a perfectly fine term" would be a ridiculously easy joke and I will judge you for making it. And I know atleast one person will. Especially bow that I've said all this.

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[โ€“] vext01@lemmy.sdf.org 36 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

"I could care less" to mean "I could NOT care less"

[โ€“] mannycalavera@feddit.uk 7 points 3 weeks ago

Thing is... this sort of makes sense if you say it with a hint of sarcasm. But curiously the only people that use this phrase are Americans. And we all know how much they understand sarcasm ๐Ÿคฃ.

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[โ€“] bstix@feddit.dk 25 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

"Ding ding ding!" When someone agrees with something you wrote, but wants to make sure that you know that they already knew and claim ownership of the statement that you wrote. Condesending asshole. I did not arrive at your opinion late.

"Meanwhile" in cooking recipes. Just no. I am following a recipe in stepwise order. You do not get to tell me what I should have already done in the previous step.

[โ€“] Nemo@slrpnk.net 9 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

The entire way recipes are written is trash.

"Add the flour and stir gently": How much flour? Why do I have to scroll back up to check?!

[โ€“] bstix@feddit.dk 7 points 3 weeks ago

It makes sense to have the ingredients first for making a shopping list and prepping. However, I do agree, with recipes being online, it should be a small task to include the quantity in the description too, even if it is adjustable for different servings.

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[โ€“] ClassifiedPancake@discuss.tchncs.de 22 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Enshittification. Everyone just learned a new word and has to use it at least once in every comment section to feel smart.

[โ€“] dessalines@lemmy.ml 11 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Marxists have a hundred years of text dedicated to alienation from labor, the falling rate of profit, degeneration of art and creative disciplines under later capitalism due to the profit motive, cycles of class struggle, all based on a materialist analysis of changing production and class relationsi

But for some reason a trendy term like enshittification that vaguely means things are getting worse, without going into the basis about why they're currently getting worse, has caught on.

I'm convinced it's part of the tech grifter trend to take things that were already invented, slap a new name on it, repackage it, and sell it.

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I'm also sick of it, but I also sort of like how it's gone viral. I had a very non-techy friend mention it to me the other day. I feel like most of the people who I see talking about it are jazzed because it makes them feel seen. My friend, for example, said to me that before she learned of "enshittification", she felt like she was going mad because of how things don't seem to work like they used to, especially in tech; she said that for the longest time, she had assumed it must be something that she was doing wrong.

[โ€“] icerunner_origin@startrek.website 19 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Upskill. I'm not 'upskilling' someone, I'm training them.

[โ€“] davel@lemmy.ml 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Iโ€™m allergic to corpospeak in general.

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[โ€“] dessalines@lemmy.ml 18 points 3 weeks ago

Someone could take all the answers here and create a copypasta equivalent of fingernails on a chalkboard.

[โ€“] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 17 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

I cringe so hard at the twitterist carebear-hugbox way of smugly claiming the intellectual high ground and shaming somebody:

"Be better." or "Do better."

The sentiment isn't terrible, but it's prevalent use is obviously just dripping with arrogance and thrown out in the most petty ways. Ugh!

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[โ€“] kubok@fedia.io 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

No, you don't have a "challenge" for me. You have a problem and are trying to make it mine.

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[โ€“] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

"living my/your/their best life"

Please gtfo

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[โ€“] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 13 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

im still a bit salty about 'literally'

also the constant failure to say 'i could not care less' correctly

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[โ€“] Paradachshund@lemmy.today 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Places using "gluten-friendly" to mean "gluten-free". I am gluten-UNfriendly. I do not want gluten. They've tried to be cute and actually managed to make the term mean the opposite of what it's supposed to.

[โ€“] Skua@kbin.earth 9 points 3 weeks ago

I bake a lot of bread, including for my coeliac stepmother, so I've taken to labelling the loaves gluten-free and gluten-expensive

[โ€“] terminhell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

"It is what it is"

I get the sentiment behind it, it's just usually so defeatist/dismissive of a situation to me.

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[โ€“] The_Che_Banana 10 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Pah-sketti

You're 65 Brad, use big boy words.

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[โ€“] Evkob@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I work as a barista and get much too annoyed by people ordering a "regular coffee".

Like I know that 99.999% of the time they mean a drip/filter coffee (excluding that one lady that one time who was surprised I didn't parse "regular coffee" as a latte), but like can you just say drip coffee? Or even simply "coffee"!

I honestly don't even know why it annoys me this much.

[โ€“] Nemo@slrpnk.net 9 points 3 weeks ago

I'm a waitress and "regular coffee" means different things across regions. Some people mean just "drip, not decaf" with no indication of cream or sugar. Some people mean "drip, black" with no indication of caffeine content. And where I grew up, "regular" means "2 cream 2 sugar", as in you'd be asked if you wanted your coffee "regular or black". It's the worst.

That latte lady was just crazy though... unless she meant "my regular"?

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[โ€“] BumpingFuglies@lemmy.zip 9 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Not a term, but a lack thereof:

People I have to regularly interact with for work have been excluding "to be", especially with "needs", and it's infuriating.

This issue needs escalated. That report needs fleshed out. Let me know if anything needs cleared up.

Those sound so wrong

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[โ€“] sgibson5150@slrpnk.net 9 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

So many things. In written form, I hate when someone writes "Period." after they make a point to mean "this can't be argued" or whatever. My good bitch, I don't think you understand how arguing works. ๐Ÿ˜†

"Full stop" is a close second.

[โ€“] Kalkaline@leminal.space 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It's a perfectly valid way to win an argument, end of sentence.

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[โ€“] everett@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
[โ€“] prex@aussie.zone 5 points 3 weeks ago

Q๐Ÿ‘E๐Ÿ‘D๐Ÿ‘

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[โ€“] metaStatic@kbin.earth 8 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

you can't just say Perchance

[โ€“] JillyB 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

When people refer to metal balls as ball bearings. A ball bearing is an assembly of outer ring, inner ring, balls, and a cage/retainer. I worked in bearing manufacture for years and they're just referred to as balls. To be more specific, it would be a bearing ball, not a ball bearing.

[โ€“] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

When people say 'like' constantly between sentences or sentence fragments or before every adjective.

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[โ€“] grid11@lemy.nl 7 points 3 weeks ago

Never mind I found it

...took the effort to nvm-d the post, but did not share how, where, or what etc

[โ€“] Nemo@slrpnk.net 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Ironically, the phrase "rustles my jimmies" really burns my biscuits.

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[โ€“] 1984@lemmy.today 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Trump, Zuckerberg, Musk, Gates....

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[โ€“] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Every stupid phrase that redditors compulsively say on every thread.

[โ€“] rothaine 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] ristoril_zip@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

"cis" I feel like it's an extra term for "straight". The "default" for lack of a better term (and one that isn't othering) is near the not trans & not gay part of the gender / sexuality spectra. To me everyone in that zone is "straight" (boring/default/whatever).

"begs the question" because people exclusively use it wrong. Just say "leads to the question" or "poses the question."

And I'm still really salty about everyone giving up on the term "literally" to allow it to mean its exact opposite.

[โ€“] moonlight@fedia.io 15 points 3 weeks ago

The "default" for lack of a better term

There is a better term, it's 'cis'

[โ€“] UngodlyAudrey 10 points 3 weeks ago

There are plenty of cis gay folks. "Straight" just doesn't work if you're trying to describe non-trans people.

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[โ€“] deadcatbounce@reddthat.com 6 points 3 weeks ago

"Live. Laugh. Love." or similar.

[โ€“] roscoe@startrek.website 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (6 children)

Bemused

It's used incorrectly so often that even when I suspect it's being used correctly I can't be sure. At this point its ambiguity makes it a bad word choice.

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[โ€“] miracleorange 5 points 3 weeks ago

Kiddos, especially when used by people in professions that work with kids. Right up there with people who unironically say pupper or doggo. Just say kids.

[โ€“] BigTechMustBurn@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 weeks ago

People ending sentences with โ€œrnโ€.

[โ€“] PlexSheep@infosec.pub 5 points 3 weeks ago
  • paradigm shift
  • military grade encryption
  • cyber kill chain
[โ€“] dirtbiker509@lemm.ee 5 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Please do the needful.

This one really grinds my gears! I think it's because the person can't even be bothered to describe what they want you to do, just go fix it and don't bother me with any details.

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[โ€“] FriendBesto@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

"It is what it is."

It is lazy, circular, a cop out and means next to nothing. Vague enough to pass as a wise quip, to some. It is not.

Also not so much a saying per sรฉ, but people who use quotes of famous people at the bottom or ends of emails. As if that implies a personality. If you are going to use something you think sounds smart, at least try to come up with that something yourself.

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[โ€“] dessalines@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 weeks ago

I recently heard someone say after they almost accidentally went in a wrong building entrance, "Good thing I didn't do that or I would regret my life choices."

A bit much for something minor that created no more than two seconds of awkwardness.

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