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[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 70 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Factory default for me

It's good enough for my typical use-case so I've just stuck with it

[–] Kidplayer_666@lemm.ee 14 points 2 months ago

Same here. As fun as it might be trying out another gender, it’s far too complicated, and I’d rather mess with NixOS

[–] Hexarei@programming.dev 11 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Same here. I like wearing skirts and being pretty but I'm a cis guy. Due to my exploration of gender expression my friends are occasionally like "Are you sure you're cis?" And I'm just like "Yep, still a man unfortunately. I'd straight up be something else if I could but nope. Still a dude."

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 11 points 2 months ago

This energy is excellent and the world needs more of it.

LET GUYS BE PRETTY TOO, DAMNIT!

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[–] lolola@lemmy.blahaj.zone 60 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Me and some friends used to all share one but then the fucking DRM kicked in and I had to get my own.

[–] IDew@lemm.ee 23 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] Quill7513@slrpnk.net 58 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

They said

Me and some friends used to all share one but then the fucking DRM kicked in and I had to get my own.

I've enloudened it

[–] IDew@lemm.ee 22 points 2 months ago

Oh thanks! Hearing aids are too expensive these days

[–] squirrel@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 2 months ago

Incompatibilities between hardware and software caused data corruption. This resulted in hangups and increasingly frequent crashes. It was necessary to download a new gender, which is currently being installed.

[–] nicknonya@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 2 months ago

one night i was pondering gender stuff because my internet circle became queer enough that out became common to see chosen genders around and i thought that i didn't want to be a girl, being a guy was fine, but i would like to be a creature.
and now i'm he/they :3

so, uh. software update ig

[–] 2kool4idkwhat@lemdro.id 25 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I replaced my old proprietary gender with a free and open source one

[–] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 8 points 2 months ago

This is kind of blursed

[–] abfarid@startrek.website 24 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It's factory installed bloat. But a lot of legacy software relies on it, so uninstalling it is a hassle.

[–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 23 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

Lol uninstalled it was bloat unironically here.

My first exploration of gender fluidity was realizing that on the internet, my bits don't matter and i don’t experience gender, so why do sites keep asking?

[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

why do sites keep asking?

Collecting and selling your data for "marketing"!

[–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Thats why i just randomize my details these days.

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[–] Gork@lemm.ee 22 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

As a diligent worker drone living paycheck to paycheck:

Work/Government Issued

[–] PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Def just bloat. How am I supposed to carry all these limes while thinking about the metaphysical connotations of gender and society?

[–] OtherPetard@feddit.nl 5 points 2 months ago

You carry these limes on a Limewire, duh

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 17 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I'm whatever you need me to be to achieve orgasm.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 9 points 2 months ago

Careful, you might turn into a couch when you least expect it

[–] LordAmplifier@pawb.social 6 points 2 months ago

A kind and caring lover? 🥺

[–] Maven@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 months ago
[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Data corruption/re-write. Installed a bunch of psychedelic programs I bought on the black market and restructured my OS from the kernel level. Worth it because shutdown/sleep signals were being ignored as well as CPU buffer trashing issues (resulting in system crashes, hangups, etc.). Works a lot better now, but handshakes are difficult because my non-conforming configuration isn't recognized by the majority of the network. Still very much worth it though as I find complete network access isn't exactly necessary.

(╭☞´ิ∀´ิ)╭☞

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[–] OfCourseNot@fedia.io 15 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Government issued and it was bloat AND it was proprietary gender. I don't want any gender without access to the source, and the freedom to use, copy, modify, and redistribute (even charging a price) said gender as I wish.

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[–] quantenzitrone@lemmings.world 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Factory default, but I tweaked it a bit and installed a few add-ons.

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[–] cpw@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 months ago

I took what came out of the box, very much factory default here. My offspring are figuring it out at the minute, Imma let them cook.

[–] Phenomephrene@thebrainbin.org 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Beta testing a system update. Lots of improvements here. This beta has been open for quite a while, and it seems to be catching on. It's already more or less stable. I expect mass adoption with somewhat regional distribution at the 1.0 release. Of course you'll have the stragglers insisting the out-dated version was better. In comparison I find it clunky, restrictive, and demanding. Our processing power has increased in orders of magnitude; why we'd want to keep using an archaic way of doing things like this is a head scratcher.

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[–] Fullyloadedsnowflake@lazysoci.al 12 points 2 months ago

I have a little wheel that I spin every morning

[–] don@lemm.ee 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

There’s no option for “found an old glass syringe with some greenish/purple liquid and an odd metallic smell, was drunk and bored so I gave it a go”?

Fine, whatever.

[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Read as:

"Found someones drug stash and gave it a whirl."

[–] don@lemm.ee 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Well, what else was I supposed to do? Not shoot it up?

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[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Uninstalled. Bloatware. The only pronoun this cognitive substrate requires is "it" :3

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 months ago
[–] fossilesque@mander.xyz 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Factory default, I'm boring but a good selection of my long term boyfriends have been bi (I dgaf), so I don't know what that says about me lol. People sometimes assume I'm gay, but I've never questioned my gender or sexuality. Lots of friends across the rainbow though, luv you all. I have gay and trans family so it isn't something that I've ever seen as "not normal."

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 9 points 2 months ago

Factory default but apparently I'm one of those models that run a combination of software designed for other models.

[–] Alice 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Uninstalled for sure. Obviously this is just a personal thing but any gender just feels like an arbitrary list of restrictions to me.

[–] vithigar@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 months ago

I identify as a cis male but essentially feel the same way. The social trappings of my gender are just that. It has about as much to do with my actual identity as my hair colour does. "Factory default" because I don't care enough to bother.

[–] jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

copied a friend's

how the hell, is it that common ??

[–] Maven@lemmy.zip 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It's not uncommon for someone to go "my friend just figured out some gender stuff and now they're exactly what I'd like to be... Oooh ahh gender thoughts!"

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[–] xuxxun 7 points 2 months ago

Ya'll have gemders?

[–] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

wrote my own lol / piecework from stuff randomly found on the internet

it's open source anyways (at least the kernel) in case anyone wants a copy :D

[–] Loulou@lemmy.mindoki.com 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Pirated.

Remember, it's not stealing, it's pirating!

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[–] the_doktor@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 months ago

Didn't get one from the factory, never installed my own. Do I need one?

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 6 points 2 months ago

Been writing my own, a fork that's almost identical to the factory original. I think I messed up one of the .ini files, hair loss is happening on the scalp

[–] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 months ago

When I first booted, it was assigned then

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago

I derived mine through scientific observation the way we detect black holes through the behaviors of nearby bodies (or through gravitational lensing and accretion discs).

Gender is very important to some people. We see this with trans folk who will suffer social stigmatization, take hormones and undergo medical procedures to identify as a gender they weren't assigned at birth. We see this with alpha males who do not feel masculine enough, no matter how big the bumper nuts on their wide-bed SUV.

I don't feel this at all. I have an [M] on my state ID. My body has the boy bits, but meh. As a young adult, I thought I just was confident in my masculinity, only I didn't do anything that was particularly masculine.

As a kid, to man up was to take care of business. These days, it seems it might have been related to pony up which is to pay the ante, since it often is about paying bills. But I was taught this was expected of everyone who was an adult, and is in fact called adulting to make sure bills are paid and household chores are managed enough to keep the larder full, the dishes clean and the elements and pests out. (Sometimes adulting was calling the utility company and asking them to please wait since I don't have the money yet. It still counts.)

Also in my youth, we had Cold War notions of manhood, which was the capacity to have unthinkable levels of violent power that you never use in any untoward fashion. Nukes were the ur-example, and guns were the obvious domestic example, but the gun was one of a dozen power tools that were only to be used with full safety precautions for their intended purpose.

But now, these days, gun owners believe the second amendment to the Constitution of the United States gives them the right to shoot people they don't like, and our elected officials act like children on the floor of their respective parliamentary halls and Dick Cheney shot judge Harry Whittington, and Whittington apologized to Cheney because WTF?

So I'm enby: don't care. There are no characteristics or traits I can imagine one sex should have that the other sex shouldn't. I am the black hole that no-one would notice except for all the stars.

[–] Sparky@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 months ago

I'm testing different software as I'm not fully aware of what my requirements are. All of it behaves differently, and comes with different perks so I'm trying to see if the non factory software is for me.

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