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As a fellow Gen Zer I feel like there is a generational gap. I want to see if I'm trippin or there actually is one.

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[–] SorteKanin@feddit.dk 29 points 4 months ago (3 children)

If you ask me, these generation labels are bullshit and just a way to put people into a stereotypical box and make them an "other". Not much better than astrology.

[–] antonim@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I don't get the impression there are even precise definitions of these generational labels.

And I don't think they make any sense at all outside of USA and maybe west Europe.

[–] SorteKanin@feddit.dk 8 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

It's inherently an american concept, which is what also annoys me as some Europeans have started importing the concept even though it makes little sense (I don't really think it makes sense in the US either but the fact that it is imported is just extra stupid).

I think people just love putting other people in boxes. Consider people complexly instead.

[–] pedka@lemmy.ml 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

i just wanted to know your age without invading privacy. a threshold is better than a number

[–] SorteKanin@feddit.dk 12 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Well, in that case, maybe this is interesting to you. I ran a user survey last year for my instance and anyone else wanting to answer and one question was age. Here's the age group graph:

The y-axis is number of respondents, x-axis is age group. Obviously this only applies to the people that responded to the survey and thus might not apply in general to the fediverse, but it's probably an indication. And, well, it's mostly smoothly distributed without any major gaps or humps (slight hump at 30-34 but not sure if that's statistically significant).

[–] pedka@lemmy.ml 6 points 4 months ago

thats cool. that hump might be random as well

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[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 28 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Elder millennial here. Born in 1985.

The millennials watched several thousand people die on live television when we were kids and then everything went downhill from there. I was in high school in September 2001. Old enough to just barely understand what was happening, too young to do jack shit about it. Frightened, we looked to guidance from our Gen-X and Boomer teachers and elders. They told us to sit down, shut up, do as we were told, and everything would be fine. By and large, we did. By and large, nothing, not one fucking thing, ended up fine.

I say this to illustrate that this is why, and how, we are the DOOMER generation. We got piled on with the baggage and bondage of manipulation and lies from the Boomers who climbed the social ladder and then pulled it up behind them, and their Gen-X toadies who rode their coattails half way up hoping they wouldn't get noticed and shaken off to land back down here in the dirt with the rest of us.

And the thing that sets the Zoomers apart is that you witnessed this happening, every single crucial step of the betrayal from every authority figure from the president on down to the homeroom teacher, and by gods... You Learned.

Zoomers, in my view, seem to possess a preternatural hyper-awareness that any promise made by anyone who has something they can take from you is good for nothing. Some people say "Zoomers don't give a shit" like it's supposed to be an insult. HA. No. I see what's really happening. They're jealous. Giving a shit was a mistake. It was a mistake we Doomers made. And I am pleased, if not in awe, when I see Zoomers not falling for the bait. You have largely withdrawn yourselves from the rat race, and now it's running out of rats. Maybe now those fucking rats can finally starve holed up and isolated in their mazes. You, meanwhile, may very well build a better way to live. And whether or not I get to participate, I love to see it.

Go get 'em, Zoomers.

[–] pedka@lemmy.ml 18 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

dunno man. maybe that hyper-awarness shit is true, but i am overwhelmed by it. i fucking hate this government, the bullshit that they feed us, the lies, the invigilation, all of it. it makes me sick. this world sucks so fucking much and i feel pretty hopeless about it, which is infuriating. i wish i was born earlier

[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 11 points 4 months ago

Tell you something homie:

Having no hope is, in my opinion, better than having false hope. You aren't waiting around for some external savior to recognize that you're struggling and swoop in to rescue you. You know that anything you get will arrive to you only by clawing it from the cold dead hands of the elders.

Yeah it sounds bleak but realize this: THEY don't know that.

THEY, those fucking parasite boomers in their ivory towers, think you're just like the millennial doomers who will roll over obediently and then do no worse than look sad and make sad noises when we get cheated ALL OVER AGAIN.

When they turned their back on US, we stayed docile, simpering, begging. When they turn their back on YOU, you are going to stab them thirty six times, slash their throats, and dig out their organs with a shiv fashioned out of one of their precious participation trophies, and eat them raw and howling.

... Or at least some of you will. And I for one hope that when it starts happening, we doomers will either stay out of the way, or for ONCE in our FUCKING LIVES stand up to protect you from the death throes of the worst generation.

You have it in you. It's growing. Keep feeding it.

[–] aCosmicWave@lemm.ee 18 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Semi-related anecdote…

During the debates my wife made a joke that Biden is so old he’s not even a Boomer. We then gave each other a look and pulled out our phones to check. Turns out it’s true, he is from the β€œSilent Generation”.

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[–] neidu2@feddit.nl 14 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Xenial, I think it's called. I was the youngest, and I was born in 1983. My siblings are Def GenX, and I never quite identified with that group.

I never quite identified as a millennial either, I'm somewhere in between.

[–] pedka@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 months ago

i dont know how its called but my shot would be xillenial

[–] Klanky@sopuli.xyz 3 points 4 months ago

This is how I feel too. 1984 for me.

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[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 14 points 4 months ago (1 children)

GEN X. The best gen.

We were nihilists long before the internet proved us right.

Plus we gave you grunge. You're welcome.

[–] pedka@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 months ago (8 children)

well nirvana is my favorite band

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[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 11 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Born during the very last month of the previous millennium, but I don't know what generation that is.

[–] pedka@lemmy.ml 6 points 4 months ago
[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

If you weren't old enough to understand what was happening when watching the twin towers fall and grasp the gravity of it while it was happening, you're a Zoomer. (And that's a good thing)

[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Some of them are alphas (?!)

[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I don't think any alphas had actually been born yet to witness it let alone comprehend it.

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[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 3 points 4 months ago

Young millennial here. My first memory relating to 9/11 is vaguely being told it was the anniversary of some event that happened the previous year in 2002.

It really wasn't (at least not directlyβ€”the aftermath of it certainly was) the big generarion-defining thing Americans like to think it was. The impact on global diplomacy (not least of which is the Iraq and Afghanistan wars), the increased security theatre when travelling on planes. That's certainly a defining generational experience. But the event itself is much less so.

[–] Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I'm early Gen Z with a kinda poor family. So I had CRT's and old VHS but also grew up on the internet.

I feel an extreme gap between me and people a few years younger. I graduated in 2018 so I was some of the last people to have a traditional highschool experience. Before Covid, Zoom, and Chatgpt.

I also mostly grew up with computers instead of phones so Im only just now getting into TikTok, I'll likely never truly revolve around it like many others (both older and younger than me).

Im only just now getting into TikTok

Please don't, for your own health's sake. There is nothing of value on that platform.

[–] Alice 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

'93, younger end of millennial.

Not big on generation labels though, they feel like a failed experiment. People are born every day of every year and our experiences overlap in a gradient. They don't separate into distinct portions.

The baby boom was an actual phenomenon, but every label afterwards feels arbitrary.

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[–] krimsonbun@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Gen Z. For once we are a minority on a social media platform that isn't facebook lol

[–] LoreleiSankTheShip@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 months ago

Same, and it's honestly a little refreshing

[–] mub@lemmy.ml 8 points 4 months ago

The coolest one . . . . Gen X.

[–] aredditimmigrant@endlesstalk.org 8 points 4 months ago (2 children)
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[–] apotheotic 7 points 4 months ago (9 children)

Generation 4, Diamond was my first and my best friend had Pearl

Serious answer, I'm on the border between millennial and gen z

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[–] AlternateRoute@lemmy.ca 7 points 4 months ago

Gen X / Xennial, analog childhood, digital adult hood.

[–] QuentinCallaghan@sopuli.xyz 6 points 4 months ago
[–] klemptor@startrek.website 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)
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[–] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip 6 points 4 months ago

Nice try fed, won't get me on a census that easily

[–] tiredofsametab@kbin.run 6 points 4 months ago

Xennial. I'm X depending upon which number you use as the cutoff (the '80 definition vs '82 definition)

Generation Tamagotchi

[–] Katrisia@lemm.ee 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I hate these generational divides. Are we really supposed to think that a person from 1982 and a person from 1994 (both millennials) have more in common than a person from 1994 and one from 1997 (one millennial and one zoomer)? It makes no sense.

If I had to answer, I guess the closest would be Zillenial: born around the mid 90s.

[–] boogetyboo@aussie.zone 4 points 4 months ago

Elder millennial

[–] pop@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 months ago

This generation.

points vaguely at everything

I'm not dead yet, AFAIK.

[–] KazuchijouNo@lemy.lol 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I think this would work better as a poll. If you make one please let me know!

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[–] JoeDyrt57@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 months ago

Kinda youngish Boomer; 67 y.o.

[–] TTH4P@lemm.ee 3 points 4 months ago
[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 4 months ago

Supposedly Gen Z due to being from 99.
Don't feel like them though. More like a very young millenial.

[–] Penguincoder 3 points 4 months ago

The older, but not the oldest one... Gen-X.

[–] Khrux@ttrpg.network 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I'm born in 98' so I'm right down the middle but generally classed as the last of the millennials.

I feel a lot closer to zoomers, but where I'm from, I think the people who have fast-tracked adulthood with kids and mortgages are textbook millennials where as layabouts like myself share a lot more spaces with young adult zoomers.

I'm already needing to remind myself that some of the deepest internet brainrot like skibidi toilet is not a new phrase but a meme of the hour started by generation alpha and then carried by confused millennials.

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