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For those that continually use services like Uber Eats, Grubhub, DoorDash, etc., how does justify using the cost?

With fees and tip added, it's almost double the cost, the food arrives cold and wait time is longer than you picking it up yourself.

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[–] ProfessorGumby@midwest.social 36 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm lazy and I have the money.

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

This is pretty much the only answer needed 😅

[–] TheButtonJustSpins@infosec.pub 14 points 11 months ago

Because I don't want to go outside.

[–] Norgur@kbin.social 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Living in Germany, so tips aren't an issue here and fees as re usually miniscule, so my justification is that I'm a lazy motherfucker with an income that is high enough to allow this kind of stupid spending (not high enough to compensate for the cost though, but that's not what we're talking about right now:P)

[–] mifan@feddit.dk 5 points 11 months ago

Denmark checking in. No tips, delivery is mostly fair priced, I’m actually waiting for food at the moment, delivery was free.

So absolutely justified … I’m more concerned about the choices I make on food.

[–] 2xsaiko@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Double the cost?! Jesus, if it were that high here I wouldn't. I basically order from two restaurants when I do, for one of them that uses one of these delivery apps it's around 20% more since they list higher prices per dish than on their menu and have a 1.50€ delivery fee on top, but the restaurant I usually order at where you can order delivery directly has a flat 1.50€ delivery fee with same prices as the menu so that's around 7% more than going in person (usually I order for around 20€).

It doesn't arrive cold since they put it in one of these isolation boxes. Especially in the winter I think that's better than me getting it myself which is a 10 minute bike ride, without an isolation box. I'm gonna have to try that next summer though. Never hurts getting a bit of exercise and I actually never checked until now and assumed it would be more like 30 minutes lol

[–] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I have literally never used any of those, because I can't justify the cost.

All the anecdotes about the poor service simply reinforce my decision.

[–] peter@feddit.uk 8 points 11 months ago

Why did you answer this post then

[–] essellburns 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Coz I get to carry on doing what I'm doing while the food turns up. It a suitable temperature, takes no time at all for me to walk to the door to thank the driver and it's totally worth the extra 20% it costs me compared to picking it up. Especially if I've been drinking

[–] sadreality@kbin.social 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] essellburns 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah, where I am, it's about 20-25%, depending on the size of the order.

Delivery is usually about £5 and the food is gonna be £20-£40

[–] sadreality@kbin.social 2 points 11 months ago

UK makes sense.

No sure where that person is at. in US between surcharge, bullshit fees and tip, it can easily hi 50% on single persons order.

[–] Elorageuse@jlai.lu 9 points 11 months ago

In french WE Say "je suis une faignasse" , but most of thé Time i don't wanna go outside or sée people.

[–] SuiXi3D@kbin.social 8 points 11 months ago

Lately? I don’t. Uber, DoorDash, all of ‘em can’t bother to pay people what they’re worth, meanwhile customers are overcharged for literally everything.

Furthermore, my experience in Austin, TX is that drivers can’t bother to actually read delivery instructions… or can’t because they can’t read English. This is fine, but translation apps exist and 9/10 drivers just can’t be bothered.

My experience is also that, half the time, drivers can’t be bothered to actually double check whether the restaurant actually bothered to give them everything I ordered, or they’re taking shit for themselves because they aren’t getting paid enough. Whatever, that’s fine, most of the time Uber Eats would refund the stuff that was missing… right up until they stopped outright. I got tired of paying for food I straight up wasn’t getting.

Never mind that Uber seems to be going out of their way to avoid paying anyone a living wage or even call the drivers employees in the first place.

It’s just not worth it. I take less time to get the food myself anyway, and spend less doing it.

[–] RovingFox@infosec.pub 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Where I live they have promotions and there is no tipping culture. The price is sometimes lower then going in person.

[–] redcalcium@lemmy.institute 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

The honeymoon period. Enjoy it while it lasts. Once their competitions gone, price would rise sharply.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Capitalism bait and switch. Richest asshole wins everything.

[–] peter@feddit.uk 2 points 11 months ago

Then I stop using it

[–] Drusas@kbin.social 6 points 11 months ago

I have medical problems and it's often hard to go out, or even impossible. I still enjoy restaurant food for its variety. Also, if I'm not feeling well enough to go to a restaurant, I'm probably not feeling remotely well enough to cook. And I can afford it.

Delivery is a life changer for the disabled...if you can afford it.

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 11 months ago

I don't live in America. Costs are reasonable. Dilevery is often free (probably hidden in the price of food, but food is only slightly more expensive, like 10% tops). Service fees are manageable, like 2-3 euros. Perhaps were still living the golden age of food delivery here and the increases will eventually come.

[–] Stormyfemme 4 points 11 months ago

Sometimes I'm hungry and not sober. Nothing is in walking distance and no way in hell would I drive like that so some days I pay too much for junk food despite the drawbacks.

[–] Nemo@midwest.social 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I don't. I cook at home... or eat leftovers I took home from my restaurant job.

[–] NoIWontPickaName@kbin.social 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] Nemo@midwest.social 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Because the question wasn't just addressed to those that do, and because if OP is under the mistaken impression that constant deliveries are the norm, it's incumbent upon us respondents to correct that error.

[–] NoIWontPickaName@kbin.social 4 points 11 months ago

But it was, it is right in the first paragraph.

The best I will give you is that you were not explicitly excluded but you were implicitly excluded.

I don’t disagree with your constant delivery reason, just to be clear.

Fucking DoorDash is ridiculous, even for pick up orders, they mark up the fucking price.

[–] guyrocket@kbin.social 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I don't justify it because I almost never do it. I may get a pizza delivered once every 6 months or so but that's it. I don't think I've ever used uber eats or similar because I think they're a complete ripoff.

I have much better ways to waste my money.

[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 4 points 11 months ago

I used to justify it with "I've had a shit day, I deserve to be able to have something for the convenience" - not to mention, I don't have a car so realistically it was "Do I want fast food or not".

Then I started to realize that every day tends to be a bad day for me, due to a multitude of reasons. I live paycheck to paycheck (which is why I don't have a car in the first place) and the amount I was spending on takeout was way too high.

Now the only time I do so is on Fridays because my workplace lets us spend $25 on their tab just for joining the weekly staff meeting. Aside from that, I might order a takeout once, maybe even twice, during a pay period as a "congrats for making it through last month" but I'd like to even stop doing that ideally.

[–] S13Ni@lemmy.studio 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I hate it but I'm constantly burned out from my my work so getting delivery is pay to win solution to "I'm hungry". Funny thing is I'm actually good cook but just lazy. If I were to make something it would be better than usual takeout. I try to avoid it but still find myself doing it more often than I would like. Not daily tho.

[–] emptiestplace@lemmy.ml 1 points 11 months ago

Very relatable. One thing that I find helps me is 'unintentionally' starting with a tiny goal. For example, I might decide to fry some smoked tofu. Adequate on its own, so the deception is compelling, but while I'm here I should probably cut an onion, some peppers ... hey, broccoli would be good, and suddenly I'm into it and I've completely forgotten about the overwhelming inertia from three minutes ago.

It sort of reminds me of trying to see faint objects in the sky by looking away from them.

[–] Jamie@jamie.moe 3 points 11 months ago

I consider it occasionally, then remember I'm paying a ton more to save like, 15 minutes. Then I just go get it.

[–] Thisfox@sopuli.xyz 3 points 11 months ago

It's faster than delivery to pick up, but still considerably faster to make the pizza myself. I'm lazy, and cheap, so I make my own pizza. Bread dough for pizza is easy to make, no need to knead, just mix, and prep time is a matter of minutes while I stretch between bouts at the computer. I have never seen the point of the delivery services.

It's not like I never tried it. At a friends house, they took an age to arrive, cost the price of a weeks food, and the order was wrong. Next week of gaming, I brought my own food and shared it. Total prep time less than that of trying to get five people to make a decision on the app, and we knew what was on the pizzas. Same goes for lots of takeaway/delivery options. Never got the hang of making noodles though. I buy those.

[–] peto@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

Generally I find the wait times aren't really longer. The perceived time maybe, as I can ring ahead and then go pick it up, but for me it's just the usual calculus of what could I alternatively spend the time doing and is it worth the added cost. It's the same as do I call a tradesperson or fix something myself. Replace a washer on a tap? Sure I will do that. Install a new toilet? Nah, get a plumber.

If money is tight and I've got the time then I'm going to cook myself. If both are tight then there's always ramen.

[–] Talaraine@kbin.social 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'd like to add a stipulation to the question as I actually have friends like this.

How do you justify using take out delivery services for ALL your meals. I mean, come on y'all. wtf

[–] sour@kbin.social 1 points 11 months ago

does it matter how close they are to food place

[–] sxan@midwest.social 2 points 11 months ago

I don't, ever, but if the deliverer can serve multiple orders at once, you could argue that it's a little more efficient and eco-friendly. Not nearly as eco-friendly as cooking at home, or making the trip on your bike, but better than making a round-trip yourself.

[–] mp3@lemmy.ca 2 points 11 months ago

Only when I'm alone and I want to treat myself without having to take out my PJ.

[–] jlow 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Also how do you justify the absurd amounts of packaging waste?

[–] peter@feddit.uk 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] averyminya 6 points 11 months ago

It's literally no different than actually going to the drive through, except maybe if you have 2 drinks they won't give the cardboard thing like they often do for delivery drivers.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 2 points 11 months ago

I don't. Heck I cut down on getting stuff in general being its twice what it used to be. doubling it again for delivery and its 4x what it was just a few years ago. I don't know how anyone affords it.

[–] shiveyarbles 2 points 11 months ago

I don't. It's ridiculous with delivery fees and tips. I have a freezer and a Costco membership, and I'm learning to cook which is actually gratifying.

[–] Locuralacura@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

Fuck no. I am poor as fuck, I can't tip bobody for nothing. Frozen pizza is the lazy meal for me. Because it's 8 dollars not 80.

[–] GammaGames 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I paid for dash pass so delivery fees are pretty much negligible, the only extra cost is the upcharge and the tip.

[–] thesmokingman@programming.dev 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Dashpass users pay more (and iOS usually more than Android). There’s plenty of anecdotal evidence. Speaking for myself, I paid more overall when using Dashpass than I did before using it.

[–] GammaGames 2 points 11 months ago

Interesting! I never have those extended range fees, I’ll have to check the dashpass vs without prices sometime

[–] neptune@dmv.social 2 points 11 months ago

The only times I ever deliver is when I cannot pick up. At work? Playing dnd? Then the delivery fee is almost worth it.

Otherwise we eat a frozen pizza or pick the food up ourselves.

[–] johannes@lemmy.jhjacobs.nl 2 points 11 months ago

I don't. I have nothing to justify to noone.

[–] BruceTwarzen@kbin.social 1 points 11 months ago

I can't that's why i don't

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I don't use them after inflation. I go to restaurant home page, and call the restaurant and drive to pick it up.

I used to use home delivery services but like you said, prices went crazy and food arrives cold or very delayed most of the time. I rather drive a bit then and pick it up.

[–] wintermute_oregon@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

Normally I use it when I don’t have time to cook something or go pick it up.

I typically cook at home. I’m a decent enough cook that it’s cheap and it taste better.

Unless I’m going fine dining. My cooking is better than most restaurants.

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