azureeight

joined 1 year ago
[–] azureeight 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am disengaged, i have a life and the site was down.

If you don't see the dog whistles that started because teens leaving religion on the internet were trying to explore themselves and break from what most people only follow because they were raised in it that the internet dismissed because of memes more than actual atheists causing issues.

Then beehaw is as bad as i was suspecting about trying too hard to appeal to everyone. You clearly wanted your mods words to be taken with respect and NOT users. If YOU are an admin and cannot see how your staff started issues and someone simply stepped in and stood firm, then you don't allow people to stand up for themselves and as a queer atheist i get it, it's not as popular, but you wouldn't let any other minority group be treated this way and your administration needs to think about that.

Beehaw is good in theory but when you do not allow anyone to discuss things and come after the group who was under attack, your team needs more experience. I wish you all well and maybe beehaw will mature, but right now it's centist leaning new age more than anything based on reality.

[–] azureeight 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

They could argue their point and were not attacking anyone specific. The mod continued to be upset and eventually attacked the poster specifically, when the posted stayed hypothetical.

If you don't know how dismissive of atheists that saying is, how it's used to shut down their opinion, which they were sharing without attacking someonee specifically, likely because they became atheists after a lot of personal work, is exactly why atheists get shut out of a conversation.

Is their opinion not valid? Have they attacked anyone or taken any rights, or just expressed an opinion they offered to discuss and never attcked anyone?

Literally they pointed out the flaws in the mods argument and the mod got mad. Only one group was being aggressive, one group made a mildly flippant joke and was willing to discuss the nuance. One became sarcastic and rude.

[–] azureeight 14 points 1 year ago (6 children)

You don't see an issue with a MOD starting with

Can we please move beyond this 2010 New Atheism view

That's really not something a mod should say and pretty much dismissing an opinion without even engaging it. I guess atheists are just ok to dismiss and deny an opinion?

[–] azureeight 7 points 1 year ago (15 children)

They're responding to the mods energy.

[–] azureeight 8 points 1 year ago

You're a mod and being this way publicly? Personally attacking?

[–] azureeight 5 points 1 year ago

It's about one small group. And one that couldn't stop being taken over by assholes and has a schism because the more conversative left.

Among those who say they were raised exclusively by Protestants, roughly eight-in-ten now identify with Protestantism, including 80% of those raised by two Protestant parents and 75% of those raised by a single parent who was Protestant. Most who were raised exclusively by Protestants but who no longer identify as such are now religious “nones,” with smaller numbers now identifying with Catholicism or other religions.

I have done a lot of research and could have a nuanced discussion. I don't think claiming people who have negative options are "2010 Atheists" is the bit of a bigot in this case. I think religion has enough people carrying water who were just raised in it and don't think critically.

[–] azureeight 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think 75% of the population literally try not to have critical thinking in one major aspect of their life that literally says don't think, have faith.

It's a part of religion to not think, to follow and obey. It's sweet you want to defend them in other avenues, but cognitive dissonance is also causing a lot of sorrow and pain while religious people on majority are standing back and following their leaders, even the progressive ones, aren't willing to progress fast enough. They're still following something that's usually mostly historically been oppressive and regressive to maintain power over the masses.

[–] azureeight 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I mean. They're doubling down on stupid i think it's fair to call them out on it. In order to follow most organized religion, you are taught to kill critical thinking and have faith. It's literally a part of the whole thing

[–] azureeight 2 points 1 year ago

Oh it won't die, the mods know that and they want the attention and power, hence staying. It's risky to offload your community, they may not go, and the power matters more than the community.

My point is if they cared they would protect their communities by getting them away from a corporate site that is always going to care more about $$$$ than morals or ethics.

[–] azureeight 10 points 1 year ago

So women are more disposable and companies cut "soft skills" first. Great, working with tech companies is already full of people with absolutely no social intelligence, let's cut the "fluff" departments (yet what hires on the tech spots? Insurance and the other underpinnings of the compensation packages), and then people show up with "wElL iTs NoT wOmEn iN TeCh".

It's the same energy as when an article gets posted about racial equality. So many ways to talk around a big societal problem.

[–] azureeight 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

The mods keep saying they're staying to protect their users, but they should be off boarding to another site if they really care. They have already lost the power to take care of their community, they're already bending to reddit.

If you keep your group on reddit you just want mod powers on a popular site, you aren't protecting anyone. I just can't accept "i care enough to stay and keep my power to obey reddit admins" is so weaksauce.

[–] azureeight 2 points 1 year ago

It's alright, i have to use surprisingly few elevators. And hey, maybe i should take the stairs more often. 😂

 

I'm hoping next year to try to grow a few plants on my apartment's deck. It's half sun and I live in a temperate area where I've had family grow tomatoes, potatos, peas, beans, etc.

I feel like any fruit or veg that can grow on a trellis should, in theory, work. Anyone have any lived experience to share? I'm not terribly good with plants, so I also ask the question "should a novice tackle this kind of project"?

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