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For me, its Xena.

Few years back, height of covid epidemic, was living in homeless shelters. Overcrowded slums, everyone miserable, yelling, screaming, fights, abuse, rage. At one point, could feel the anger building in me. Powerless, a victim, desire for retribution. What good was trying to be better person, when all it meant was people walking over me.

Started rewatching xena, hadn't in years. Big message of the show: when surrounded by hate, violence, it's tempting to give in, to not be a victim. But you have a choice, to not continue the cycle, to make a better world. I so needed to hear that message at that time in my life.

What tv show helped you?

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[–] PeepinGoodArgs@reddthat.com 36 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

The Good Place.

That show is so good! But the ending fucked me up for like a week.

Also, how are you watching Xena? I used to love that show when I was a kid!

[–] 31415926535@lemm.ee 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Have an external hard drive filled with tv shows, been collecting for years. Most via torrents.

[–] RootBeerGuy@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 1 year ago

The way to go these days. Arrr!

[–] girl@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

That is my answer too! The ending is the only media I’ve ever seen that comes close to my own philosophy/beliefs about the afterlife. I think about the different philosophies the show presented all the time, and especially wonder “how many points would I get/lose if I do this” lol

[–] Bishma@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 year ago

Currently rewatching the Good Place (mid season 2). So good.

[–] gregorum@lemm.ee 27 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The Bermaga-Era Star Treks (TNG-ENT). For better or worse, they were some of the best television made in that time, and a guiding light for morality, ethics, and hope for what the best of humanity can be. Eventually…

Ya know, after we nearly annihilate ourselves in a few decades in WWIII, then invent warp drive, get visited by aliens, and decide to form a democratic socialist world government that puts the worst mistakes of humanity behind us so that we can finally begin exploring the stars.

It doesn’t get mentioned much outside that one movie, but all that has to happen first before humanity gets over its collective bullshit. I’ll probably be dead by then, though.

[–] mle86@feddit.de 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] shapis@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 year ago
[–] thepreciousboar@lemm.ee 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

All of the Star Trek show, especially TNG, Voyager and Emterprise, because I've watched them so many times when I was a kid at my grandparent's house.

I was fascinated by the various captains. They were always so smart, capable, full of resources, curious, charismatic and generally great leaders, mostly coherent with their morals. They were basically badass scientist explorers and I identified so much with them without even realizing it.

Now whenever I find myself in any leadership position, I ask myself what they would do. I could choose to be logical and intellectual like Picard, empathetic like Janeway or brave like Archer. This shaped me more than I could ever imagine.

[–] PM_ME_FAT_ENBIES@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago

That's weird, I think of Janeway as the least empathetic captain. She denied the doctor's humanity against his will, and gave 7/9 humanity by force without trying to understand its own perspective.

Twin Peaks

Star Trek TNG

[–] EyIchFragDochNur@feddit.de 12 points 1 year ago

Big bang theory. Sheldon made me realise that I am often selfish, compulsive neurotic, socially inept, an asshole without realising/ wanting it and super intelligent.

[–] smegger@aussie.zone 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sliders. One of those accessible sci-fi shows that helped instill a love of the genre

[–] lichtmetzger@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

Loved this show. Started to go downhill when they introduced those nazi aliens though. And without John Rhys-Davis it wasn't the same anymore...

[–] metaStatic@kbin.social 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] sparky678348@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

This and Steven Universe for me.

[–] Sabakodgo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

MASH, is a show that always makes me laugh. It's also taught me to appreciate the things I have, because the characters in the show don't have much, but they still find ways to have fun.

[–] supercheesecake@aussie.zone 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’m surprised this doesn’t have more votes. MASH was just full of great episodes. Including probably the greatest series finale of all time. Just incredible.

[–] InputZero@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've been rewatching it and besides Corporal Klinger's ongoing cross dressing gag being overly transphobic it's still pretty good. Plus they got him out of drag eventually and even manages to be trans-sensitive, for the time. Still completely unacceptable these days but it was a very different time. I think it also shows how far we've grown.

[–] osmn@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

How was it transphobic? The whole entire show is extremely critical of the wars (Vietnam in theory, and Korea in practice), the military, and the state of society in general.

Stating that it's transphobic because it just depicts a common practice of draftees seeking non-dishonorable discharge is like stating "Get Out" is a racist movie because it depicts racism.

The only hate ever depicted towards Klinger is by characters that are considered antagonistic. Not to mention the multiple plotlines that are extremely supportive of homosexual characters.

Save for the first three seasons with Hawkeye and Trapper's overt "womanizing", it's an extremely woke show even by today's standards. Alda even spoke out against his character being written as such. At most, it's fairly misogynistic. I'm not really sure how you come up with transphobic though, unless you haven't really watched it.

[–] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 11 points 1 year ago

X Files - scared the crap out of me. Wasn’t a fan of aliens and screw that one episode with the inbred family.

[–] Wojwo@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The Good Place. My wife and I were going through some spiritual crisis as we were questioning Mormonism. We started watching the Good Place, not really knowing what it was. The philosophy and comedy came at just the right time. It's a great show.

[–] June@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Out of curiosity, are you still a practicing Mormon?

[–] Wojwo@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

No. Both of us are out, it's wonderful.

[–] cyberpunk007@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 year ago

The expanse. Battlestar Galactica. Just how wild things get and the whole "what if" factor of where society is headed and what could be in the black beyond.

[–] sh00g@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Gilmore Girls. I know the show has some problematic humor but it's one of the best shows I've ever watched as far as characterization is concerned. The writing and the characters have a way of sucking you into the story that I haven't really found in any other show.

[–] wyzim@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Did you check out Marvellous Mrs. Maisel from the same show maker?

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[–] phpinjected@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 1 year ago

Silicon valley

I totally relate with gifoyle a lot

[–] maegul@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

While young, x files and South Park. While older, Twin peaks, which I only watched recently including the new season 3.

[–] Wytchhazel08@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

Twin peaks X-files Xena

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 year ago

Six Feet Under, by far. It’s (in my opinion) the best show ever made. I never cry, but I cannot stop myself from crying at the end. It’s a perfect end to a perfect show. Its themes have a lot to do with themes in my own life and it changed my perspective on… everything? Nah, but a lot of things. Especially grief.

I was elated that my now-spouse who is a mortician had never heard of it… watching it again with someone to whom the subject matter… mattered even more was an incredible experience.

[–] oxjox@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Mr. Wizard's World. MacGyver. The A-Team.
And all the cooking shows on PBS in the 80s.

I've always been someone to tinker and break things apart to create new things. I've always been a problem solver.

Oh - and I pretty much got my entire sense of humor from Three's Company, Mork and Mindy, Cheers, and Mash.

[–] Gestrid@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago

Basically any show on PBS Kids. I used to watch back when Mister Rogers' Neighborhood aired regularly on it. Other shows I watched included Zoboomafoo (with the Kratt brothers!), Clifford, Arthur (was sad when I heard it'd aired its final new episode recently), Cyberchase, and Clifford's Puppy Days. My parents didn't have cable until I was a teenager, so I was pretty much raised on nothing but PBS Kids (as far as TV shows I could watch).

Another show I used to watch when I was really young, though, was Disney's House of Mouse on ABC Saturday Mornings. I was devastated when they stopped airing it. We didn't have a TV guide or anything, so, when it simply didn't come on one morning, it caught me by complete surprise. On a less sad note, I think I actually still have Snowed In at the House of Mouse on VHS.

[–] meathorse@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

Scrubs - landed at just the right time for me, fresh out of school and working through first real job/relationship. While my mates and I aren't Turk n JD close, we were closer than the typical dude-bro stereotype of the time and it felt like this show just made it a lot easier to love your best mate without the homophobic shame BS!

[–] Thavron@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

There's two shows that I started watching in my formative years (16-ish) that had a big impact on me: Frasier and Smallville. Frasier is still one of my favourite shows of all time. Recently watched a bit of Smallville again and it's... Not that good.

[–] orca@orcas.enjoying.yachts 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Mr. Wizard and MacGyver were big ones for me. They hit a curiosity and adventure sweet spot for me as a kid. Mr. Rogers and Bob Ross also helped teach me empathy and kept my artistic side interested.

I’m really grateful for the era I grew up in and the television personalities it gave me. It’s nice knowing that my influences have stood the test of time and I appreciate the foundation they gave my young mind.

If only I could keep that energy and inspiration going. Anxiety coupled with depression can really get you lost.

[–] gianni@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

I don't think I'd be the same person without Adventure Time

[–] lemmie689@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 year ago

When I was young, I read "Call of the Wild" and "White Fang".

Littlest Hobo was my fav show, about a dog helping people.

[–] ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

ER almost made me become a doctor, I could have easily seen myself going down that path. I thought it was much more expensive in my country for medical school than it actually was, so I didn't go into medicine because of that, and then after I realized I was wrong about how much it would cost it made me realize okay maybe I wasn't smart enough to be a doctor to begin with.

Silicon Valley inspired me to continue working hard on one of my Java-based personal projects. I'd love to say it's a hugely massive success and I have hundreds or thousands of customers, but it's still just a personal project for fun at this point and probably always will be.

[–] Ivanovabr@lemmy.eco.br 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Star Trek and Xena too.

[–] NENathaniel@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

How I Met Your Mother

Won’t pretend it’s the greatest of shows but, for a couple lonelier years a while back, they were my best friends

[–] UnrepententProcrastinator@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Gargoyles. TNMT. Don't have the verbiage to explain the impact. Just a feeling.

[–] MetricIsRight@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Gargoyles consistently slips under people's radar and that's so sad, as it was such a great cartoon. I mean who doesn't want Jonathan Frakes voicing the big bad?

[–] 8000mark@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

In Living Color. Man, the talent on that show was unbelievable: Almost the complete family Wayans, Jamie Foxx, Jim Carrey ... they all started with that show. And Jennifer Lopez was on the dance crew! Look up the skits on Youtube or Piped. The comedy I saw on that show was transformative. It's 30 years later and I'm still quoting Hans & Franz, Men on film, or Calhoun Tubbs regularly.

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