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Would you uproot your life, leaving behind your family, your job etc if you dont like the weather in a country.

(Obviously theres always more than one advantage of moving someplace but to build a life somewhere, would weather be top 3 factors in choosing where to live).

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[–] Scrof@sopuli.xyz 28 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I think absolutely yes. I'd give up a lot to move to Finland or some shit just because the weather there sounds like haven to me. I live in the Middle East and it's not as much the heat that kills me (it's "only" a factor for about a third of a year and it sucks too of course) its the goddamn dust storms, I'm so sensitive to these things. I still have no idea why some people like living in deserts under a scorching Sun, with all the sand and dust in the air, it's dreadful, not to mention the nature is super boring without proper fields, forests and rivers and stuff.

[–] sndrtj@feddit.nl 6 points 1 year ago

Please realize Northern European winters are... dark. It's not the cold that matters much, it's the darkness for months on end that can be seriously detrimental to mental health if you're not used to it.

Saaame, tho Finland sounds too extreme.

[–] Shady_Shiroe@lemm.ee 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I would love to leave the south for cooler climates but I have too much family here so heat stroke it is.

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[–] MrPoopyButthole@lemm.ee 24 points 1 year ago

It's a great reason. Especially with climate change.

I met someone the other day that said they moved from Portland to Cincinnati because of their climate change concerns.

Over the next 50 years, we're going to see MILLIONS of people in the U.S. moving for the same reasons.

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Move sooner than later, before folks catch on that it isn't getting colder

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[–] LongPigFlavor@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 year ago

Yes, especially if it's likely to worsen over the years due to worsening climate change.

[–] haohao@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I'm going to move next year, and the weather definitely is one of the reasons (not the main reason though). At least half of the year the temperature here is above 30°c, 60%+ humidity and basically no wind. I somewhat got used to it after a decade here, but I'm sure I'll spend more time outside when I move away.

[–] squaresinger@feddit.de 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't get why a condition like that is still called "good weather".

[–] Valmond@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If it's chill at night then it can be quite nice, if it's 23°C at night you feel like you are dying all the summer.

[–] haohao@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

~25 at night these days

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[–] Sternout@feddit.de 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're talking about your local climate, not weather, which can change any day

[–] Anamana@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thanks for the reddit flashback

[–] Sternout@feddit.de 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I just think the distinction is important. Especially because climate change deniers try to confuse people about the two terms.

[–] Anamana@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

All good, makes sense. Thanks for elaborating

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When I was little, we had a saying, "go to Heaven for the climate, go to Hell for the people."

[–] synae@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 year ago

San Francisco it is!

[–] ExLisper@linux.community 11 points 1 year ago

Weather is a way better reason to move than family or job are to stay.

[–] orca@orcas.enjoying.yachts 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I live in Florida and want out for a multitude of reasons, the heat and weather being one of the main ones. You can’t enjoy anything outdoors when the humidity is so bad you’re instantly sweating when you walk outside and everything you own has condensation on it. I don’t know why people stay here. I don’t mind heat but this is a hellscape.

I’ve spent a lot of summers here and this has easily been the worst of them all. It’s much hotter than previous.

[–] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I got out of Florida in 2022 after Sally tore the roof off my house and insurance companies dropped and picked me up so I wouldn't sue them for not covering the roof. I got the roof replaced and left only friends behind. I don't blame you one bit. All my tools have a layer of rust on them from constantly being wet.

[–] orca@orcas.enjoying.yachts 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The way insurance companies act in this state is criminal. We pay them for a service and then in our most dire time of need, they drop us. We’ve been really lucky and have only had minor cleanup and damages. The worst issue has been loss of power, which regularly ranges from 3 days all the way up to 2 weeks.

Glad you got out. We have nothing holding us here except a handful of friends, but I really can’t stay here much longer. I’ve already told my partner that retiring here is absolutely 100% not an option.

[–] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I never knew house insurance was so dramaticly different from state to state. We had a wind storm at our new house. The insurance company called us to inspect our roof and replaced it. We've owned the house less than a year at this point. Florida doesn't care about home owners unless you own one on a beach and you get federal money to rebuild it everytime it gets blown away.

Get out while your house value is up. No one knows what's going to happen when the commercial property market crashes. People aren't going to return to the office for a dollar more then unemployment and commercial property owners think they are going to get their way because they always have, they'd rather watch the market crash then undervalue their property.

Definitely don't retire in Florida the state doesn't care if you can't afford to evacuate during hurricane. Now imagine trying to evacuate when you're 65 on a fixed income. Sounds like a stressful retirement.

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[–] clark@midwest.social 11 points 1 year ago

If you feel that the weather is affecting your day-to-day life for the worse, absolutely. You are not obligated to stay for family or for a job. Prioritise your health, you can always visit relatives.

[–] squaresinger@feddit.de 10 points 1 year ago

Any reason that's important to you to warrant the costs and downsides of moving is a reason that's obviously good enough.

[–] fratermus@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you think bad weather is a good reason for moving?

I'm probably not your target demographic (I live in a campervan) but I move regularly to follow mild weather.

Like a bird migrating depending on the weather! Love it

[–] OldFartPhil@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

Sure, why not? Everyone has their own reasons for moving and climate contributes to an area's quality of life.

When I moved from Southern California to the Pacific Northwest, the benign climate here was a factor. Didn't want to live somewhere where it was blazing hot every day for months, where it was a steam bath all summer or where I had to shovel snow every winter.

[–] mp3@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 year ago

A bad neighbor is a good reason for moving, I don't see why bad weather wouldn't be.

[–] retrieval4558@mander.xyz 8 points 1 year ago

Honestly as the climate gets worse, I think this will be a lot more common.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 1 year ago

I grew up in a region with extreme hot and extreme cold. After living many years in a milder climate, I think my family are all nuts for staying. Not the climate asshole for wanting to enjoy the outdoors.

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 year ago

I’d say generally no because for most people it’s a relatively small factor in what makes them happy. But if for you it’s a big thing, it could be worth considering.

Just be sure to be clear eyed about what will or won’t make you happy. I think a lot of dissatisfied people find excuses to pin their feelings on that may not be the real cause of their problem. You don’t want to move across the world only to realize weather wasn’t the problem all along. Also, if you’ve never moved long distances before, I’ve noticed many people underestimate the benefits of the connections they have with family, friends, and community. I know I did, and it can take a long time to rebuild those things.

[–] guyrocket@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

Yes, but I'm in a pretty good spot now so it is in theory, not reality.

I think with global warming starting to have worse and worse effects that we will see more and more climate refugees moving around. A couple of my neighbors are planning to move to FL, which seems crazy to me.

[–] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] kglitch@kglitch.social 7 points 1 year ago

Move now, beat the rush.

[–] Rocketpoweredgorilla@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

I'd be packed and gone before you finished typing that sentence.

[–] OceanSoap@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

Weather wasn't the only reason I moved from New Jersey to California, but it was one of the top three. Seasonal depression is a real thing and I definitely had it.

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 year ago

Yes! Especially now that climate change is starting to have a serious impact. If it family truely loves me, they'll come visit.

[–] GiddyGap@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

I moved to get supposed better and warmer weather. Can't tell you how much I despise summers now. The heat is relentless and I'll be escaping back to "bad" weather whenever possible.

[–] _xDEADBEEF@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yes, but I'm biased as I've considered leaving the UK just because I can't stand the weather for about 1/2 of the year. The grey and wet really gets to me

The UK was my dream weather location 😭😭. Even tho I know its famously hated for the rain.

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[–] CurlyWurlies4All@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Unless you live in an extreme snow, flood, fire or tornado prone region, I'd probably think you're crazy if that was your only reason to move. But if weather is just one of many reasons, like job, lifestyle, housing, travel... I get it.

[–] skadden@ctrlaltelite.xyz 5 points 1 year ago

Or extreme heat. I've got family and friends fleeing Arizona every year

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

I hated the heat in my home country, so I asked my employer to relocate me. Unfortunately they moved me to a place where the summers are even worse. lol. But at least the rest of the year is cooler than back home where it’s hot all year round.

[–] 520@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I did, and I really haven't regretted it for a second.

[–] makingStuffForFun@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Move. I moved to a country for work. It was miserable, and in turn, so was I. Moved back to Australia. Heaven.

However, I'm finding the humidity is too much for me here, so have my eye on New Zealand.

New Zealand is option 2 for me too, but australia and NZ feel like they are completely dosconnected to the rest of the world. Even tho I got some cousins there.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 year ago

If I really, really hated it, yes.

[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago
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