Not a Fan of "positive masculinity", but at this point I'm happy about any dude that takes a little step in the right direction... Manhood ultimately will have to die though
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Manhood ultimately will have to die though
bizarre take; i don't see why this is true or necessary at all
Yeah really. What does that even mean?
i'm not exactly a fan of gender roles or the nature of "manhood" or "masculinity" or gender expression generally myself and am supportive of their total de-emphasis, so my presumption is that the case for this is something like "manhood as a concept is so toxic and so intrinsic to the worldview that creates patriarchy and men oppressing themselves and others that we cannot create a better form of it, we can only get rid of it."
the problem is that this is almost exclusively the purview of radical feminism, and this was not productive for them historically (mostly it just took them very weird places, the SCUM manifesto being the most infamous manifestation of this). to say nothing of the fact that most radical feminism--and radical feminists--suck and have bad politics and analysis on queer issues in large part because of how that space of politics developed
I hear that.
For a concurring perspective, I'm not a fan of gender roles either. But I can't imagine the way to solve the problems gender roles create is to somehow remove a related gender identity. Trying to repress a gender has never worked well, and I don't think repressing a masculine gender would be any different. Gender identity has existed for all of recorded human history, and even seems to have taken some form in prehistoric times (fertility idols and such). I think the way forward is to let a thousand flowers bloom and let anyone who wants to explore or define their own gender to do so.
Some stereotypes are natural (let's be real) but to only cater to them makes it seem like everyone else is wrong.
A way around this is to perhaps present the video along the lines of "if you are the kind of person who feels X in situation Y, consider expressing it respectfully by doing A, B or C" (where X is a stereotype)