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I'm just tired I wish I could come out (vent) (self.lgbtq_plus)

submitted 1 year ago by sleepybisexual to c/lgbtq_plus

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My parents have been giving a lot of mixed signals so indon't know if I can come out or not.

On one hand they don't talk shit and don't get pissy about pride flags and stuff and actually seem supportive. On the other they are extremely religious. To the point where they get pissed when I don't want to go to church. Wish I had a clear answer. Extended family is even worse. Everyone is extremely

I don't even know why I bother. Everything has been crashing down recently. My family is probably unaccepting. I'm pretty sure my boyfriend left me. Don't know why I keep going. I'm just sick and tired

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[–] sleepybisexual 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I can't trust my siblings. They are 5 and 3 yes old and share everything with everyone. My partner ( maybe ex I'm confused) was all I cared about and now I don't even have that left

[–] branflakes1413 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah that would complicate things. Can’t exactly trust kids with secrets. Maybe you don’t have a partner right now but at least you have us here to cheer you up!

Things will eventually get better. It’s cheesy and not always the case for everyone, but it can.

Now if you’re worried about this in the future, start trying to become as self-sufficient as you can. Save up your money and really start learning some skills. Maybe gardening or wood working (or something that actually interests you.)

Definitely learn cooking and laundry if you haven’t already. Sewing is good, too. Even if you only know how to sew buttons back on!

[–] sleepybisexual 2 points 1 year ago

I am learning to become more self sufficient it's just my mental health is going to shit. I don't know what to tell you. He was everything to me. No matter how bad things were I was happy because he was there.