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What’s the most disruptive/derailing thing you’ve experienced in a relationship? (self.askbeehaw)

submitted 1 week ago by MonkeyTown to c/askbeehaw

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I have some issues. I ignore most of them and cry when I want to. Is it healthy? Fuck no. But it keeps me going!

Today I’m soliciting feelings because I’m ultra disappointed that the person I thought wanted to shape their life to be with me, to match the shaping I’ve done to accomodate them, really only wants compromise when it’s mine! Super fun! We were looking at building a life and now I get to figure out how to do the big life goal things I want on my own! Super!

So, beehaw, what’s the most painful relationship thing you’ve been through? Bonus points if it totally upended your life plans. Extra bonus if they said they were “doing it for you”.

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[–] SweetCitrusBuzz 2 points 1 week ago

Yeah, this is we like our current relationships with people, they want us to be equals.

Oh very much so, though we are more of a forest 😉