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What was something you learned too late in life? (lemmy.ml)

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[–] ReakDuck@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I don't want to transition. I am 100% male and this will not change, but I still wanna dress sometimes like a gothic queen. Will happen for Halloween.

But I still feel like people care. Even small changes on me get attention. I guess it depends if you learned lots of peoplr and friends in University or not.

I think when Learning new people, it might have an influence. But idk. I never tried it because I am afraid.