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• Sneak the time when you can
• Play games with them
• Wait until they are 12 (-ish) and they decide you are uncool

Otherwise, you're doing what I ended up doing. There was a long span that, I just... never played games because I was too busy. I regret that a bit because it's a thing that makes me happy and even if I'm "Dad", I'm still a person that deserves some time for "me".

The people I've worked with on FOSS projects don't do it to be famous or capture market share. They do it because it scratches an itch they had; it's something they needed and decided to give back.

Large projects by huge megacorps have incorporated the OSS code I worked on into their own projects. Did it bother me? Sure, a little. Mostly because people just assume that the ideas and work came from the benevolence of a big tech company rather than someone who just enjoys seeing others problems solved.

You do you. If it makes you feel good to write something: go for it. If it gets popular? Cool. If it doesn't? That's okay too, you still have something that works well for you.

Oh, I totally get it. It's super dumb, but being a kid is really hard these days; kind of ridiculously so.

Long story short: they got iPhones. Do I like it? No. Did it make me feel bad to pay into that dark pattern? Yeah. Did I do it anyway? Yup.

But at the end of the day, I had a choice between doing what I felt was right vs. doing what would make their lives just a little easier psychologically.

I did explain how stupid it was that Apple was doing this, how much it was complete and utter nonsense, and what dark patterns were. I can't force their friends to do different things, but I can nudge their behavior. I taught them about Signal and they've shown their friends. It hasn't caught on like wildfire of course, but, it's there and I learned that at least some kids today understand a lot more about privacy and security than I'd given them credit for.

The problem that I have with the way Apple does this has nothing whatsoever to do with me. It's their device, it is not possible for me to care any less about it.

No, the problem I have is that it becomes a severe bullying / exclusion tactic among kids. Now, kids will always find something to bully other kids about, but this one seems to hurt a lot because of the source of the ire and the inability to do anything about it (short of purchasing an Apple device).

My eldest was excluded from group chats with friends because they "ruined" the quality of pictures and videos by being in the group chat. These are friends mind you, not the sort of bullies the rest of us might've had. It's devastating to kids when their friends exclude them like this. What do you do? You can't complain about the technology not mattering, you can't reason with it, you can't say: "it gets better".

Kids these days have a very different relationship to technology. That relationship can seem weird or "wrong" to folks who remember a time before these ubiquitous devices. Crap patterns like this creating artificial walled gardens are not "novel" or "creative" ways to increase sales.

Seems like all the traffic had to go somewhere...

Lots of love for the Beehaw and other Lemmy admins this morning. It's never fun suddenly having to 10x scale. Although it sounds like everybody else on the internet is getting a heavy traffic load today too.

I think the most fun, unintended consequence is that there were some assumptions baked into the Reddit codebase and the large number of Private subreddits has caused massive disruption and outages for them. While others have speculated it might be a tactic to hamper the affects of the protest, it sure seems real plausible to have not anticipated 6K subreddits going private overnight.

DRY is nice and all, but never let your code get so DRY it chafes.

Long story short: if your printer supports IPP Everywhere (it probably does) you don't need drivers or any sort of software other than CUPS.

It's pretty great at being a server OS, honestly.

There are tons of modules that set up services well. Almost everything I've wanted to run already has a module and it's as easy as services.name.enable = true.

By far my favorite aspect has been being able to declaratively configure things like Prometheus or Traefik. It solves a problem I end up trying to solve with a lot of glue (and YAML) at work.

Being able to recover from disaster by just checking out your git repo and doing a rebuild makes everything else feel a little... hacky. You don't need a separate system to manage config files or software versions.

I sound like a fanboy because I am. It's been revolutionary for me.