elfpie

joined 1 year ago
[–] elfpie 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I have been experiencing the same issue. The action is performed, but it seems the confirmation is not received. It happens in liftoff, thunder and Firefox.

[–] elfpie 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

The cardboard boxes become common for home deliveries here. Banning plastic bags was a battle that went nowhere without a good alternative.

People need to be educated for things to work. Expose everyone to the solutions until it becomes ingrained.

[–] elfpie 9 points 1 year ago

I had a blog many years ago. The culture around it was very curious and I wish I remembered it well. It was a bunch of blogs with links to all the other blogs that they would recommend and interacted with. Maybe blogs weren't contaminated by the thought we should be entertaining others all the time. Lurkers wasn't even a concept.

[–] elfpie 5 points 1 year ago

Maybe. After I decided to try cycling, things improved. It's one activity in which I can invest that I always appreciate the returns. It's not feeling alive that's important, more not feeling like I'm wasting my time.

Careewise, I enjoyed being a teacher, but it felt like an uphill battle that I was fighting alone most of the time.

[–] elfpie 1 points 1 year ago

An article talking about the law: Reregulating sexuality in Hungary

The greatest lesson for me is they are afraid of education. They don't want people to understand themselves or out groups to understand the reality of the situation, which is people just living their lives.

Every time they shut one avenue of knowledge, make sure to spread the message.

[–] elfpie 2 points 1 year ago

Summer are the lazy days here in Brazil as well. Maybe we just don't get cold enough to stop our activities. There are actually some festivities during winter months that people look forward to.

[–] elfpie 2 points 1 year ago

For their benefit, I didn't even realize there was a premium version until now.

[–] elfpie 4 points 1 year ago

As you can see, you're bisexual for the community by the way you describe how you feel. With that said, don't fell pressured to use a label. If it oppresses you, drop it. They are there to help you understand yourself, not to guide your behavior.

[–] elfpie 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The reason behind the rules might help with that. Don't be a dick and be nice are more about being respectful and understanding than following etiquette. From my point of view at least. The specific way you act is not a problem until it's related to another person.

What I mean is that the way people perceive you is the important part. If someone accuses you of being a dick and you disagree, don't defend your words, explain your attitude. At the same time, don't go around accusing people of beings dicks and try to see if it's not just miscommunication.

The letter of the law entitle people to not care for any harm they cause if it's in their rights. Then there are the people that realize pain is what the law tries to avoid and act to correct themselves without the need of being guilty.

[–] elfpie 7 points 1 year ago

Twenty years ago, before I questioned anything about myself, I fell in a pattern of looking for queer friendly spaces when looking for nice clans inside games I played. It's a shorthand for receptive spaces that I use even today.

[–] elfpie 2 points 1 year ago

I think I understand now. The only way to be sure he'll be understanding is to really be out to him. Have you considered that? Is he a good option to start? How was his reaction when you corrected him?

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