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I'm so glad they recommended it for all ages. Get boosted and wear an n95 mask, folks! This surge isn't looking good.

Hm... I'd actually disagree with that conclusion? I think what the author is saying there is that ableism isn't simply a matter of the words being used. A statement that treats disabled people as subhuman isn't okay because it avoids using these words - it's still ableist.

From the beginning of the article (emphasis mine):

Note that only some of the words on this page are actually slurs. Many of the words and phrases on this page are not generally considered slurs, and in fact, may not actually be hurtful, upsetting, retraumatizing, or offensive to many disabled people. They are simply considered ableist (the way that referring to a woman as emotionally fragile is sexist, but not a slur).

Not everyone has the ability to be mindful of how certain language originated in ableism and this reinforces it. But for those of us who can, it's a good idea to try.

Sounds like folks have given a good number of alternatives, but I just wanted to share a resource: "Ableism/Language" by Lydia X. Z. Brown. It goes through a bunch of ableist words and suggests alternatives. :)

I'm so grateful for his work. I struggle to explain how "I'm tired" encompasses so much, often because I'm too tired to explain, hah. But now I can point to this article!

The 21 million includes everyone, not just registered voters. Until 2015, I couldn't vote because I wasn't a citizen. Still had to live with the shitty policies that Floridian politicians passed into law.

Quite a few folks have mentioned Outer Wilds, so I'll add the DLC soundtrack. The titular song (Echoes of the Eye) that plays at the end of the DLC makes me burst into tears every time I hear it. But in a good way, haha.

It's not ideal, but I use Patreon to donate to a few different folks at once (I think it still combines transactions to reduce fees...). Otherwise I usually pay the fee, if the amount I'm donating is small and I'm given the choice.

It also said it would pay realistic premiums for certain product attributes, such as toothpaste with fluoride and deodorant without aluminum.

Most toothpastes in the US have fluoride - it's the ones that don't which likely cost more (ones with "natural" ingredients, ones with hydroxyapatite...).

The startup Synthetic Users has set up a service using OpenAI models in which clients—including Google, IBM, and Apple—can describe a type of person they want to survey, and ask them questions about their needs, desires, and feelings about a product, such as a new website or a wearable. The company’s system generates synthetic interviews that co-founder Kwame Ferreira says are “infinitely richer” and more useful than the “bland” feedback companies get when they survey real people.

It amuses me greatly to think that companies trying to sell shit to people will be fooled by "infinitely richer" feedback. Real people give "bland" feedback because they just don't care that much about a product, but I guess people would rather live in a fantasy where their widget is the next best thing.

Overall, though, this horrifies me. Psychological research already has plenty of issues with replication and changing methodologies and/or metrics mid-study, and now they're trying out "AI" participants? Even if it's just used to create and test surveys that eventually go out to humans, it seems ripe for bias.

I'll take a example close to home - take studies on CFS/ME. A lot of people on the internet (including doctors), think CFS/ME is hypochondria, or malingering, or due to "false illness beliefs" - so how is an "AI" trained on the internet tasked with thinking like a CFS/ME patient going to answer questions?

As patients we know what to look for when it comes to insincere/leading questions. "Do you feel anxious before exercise?" - the answer may be yes, because we know we'll crash, but a question like this usually means researchers think resistance to activity is an irrational anxiety response that should be overcome. An "AI" would simply answer yes with no qualms or concerns, because it literally can't think or feel (or withdraw from a study entirely).

That's kind of like saying you don't know the point of Solitaire, because the point of card games is playing against other people~

Personally I really like solo/journaling TTRPGs because they're more accessible to me. (Talking is more tiring than writing, and people always want to play for hours whereas I can stop at any time if playing solo.)

And it's different than simply writing a story, because you react to dice rolls and prompts like you would when playing collaboratively.

When I moved in with my partner, I had to let go of a lot food-related shame or sense of obligation. My partner has executive dysfunction stuff, I don't have the energy for cooking - but my parents scoffed at frozen meals and takeout when I was a kid, and my dad got annoyed when something in the fridge went bad

My life got so much easier when I stopped feeling bad about finding easier ways to eat. I'm glad you've found options that work well for you!

Yeah, at least for types associated with low blood volume! I've seen some folks talk about taking a salt tablet and drinking water before they even get out of bed, but somehow I've never really managed to make that part of my morning routine. I do better with salty food and electrolyte drinks (Normalyte).

I've been doing savory oatmeal for breakfast! It's salty for an early boost for POTS, and with quick oats I can just dump things in a bowl and microwave for a couple minutes (low spoons for CFS). Still working on collecting things I can add, like jarred sliced mushrooms and asking my partner to boil lots of eggs to keep on hand in the fridge.

I don't have the energy to cook or make most meals, so I'm usually just helping my partner with ideas. It's exciting to be able to come up with ideas and actually get to execute them.