Vlaxtocia

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Explain bidets for me please. in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 10 months ago

It's a shower, but just for your ass

Presidential Immunity in c/humor
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Wait I think I've been out of the loop for too long what the fuck?

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how did you deal with internalised transphobia? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

It's something I'm really struggling with, thanks to it it feels like I'm obsessed with the idea of 'passing', like whenever I see other trans women who don't pass it gives me a little burst of dread, thinking that it's impossible to pass and I'd never be able to. That horrible fear of looking "like a man in a dress" like there's actually a problem with that outside of the societal expectation I've had slotted into my brain.

I know that you don't have to pass to be trans, and that all trans women are equally valid, and that what I really need to do is to let go of the idea of passing altogether, and just be happy being who I am on the inside.

I was just wondering if any of you girls have been through something similar, and if you had any advice. Xx

Here's another spam account. in c/main@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 11 months ago

Better than CSAM

People who can control their dreams - what is it like? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago

I assume so, it takes constant effort and practice to be able to do it at all though, that was over 10 years ago now when I was in my first year at university, I haven't had the time to dedicate to it since 😅

People who can control their dreams - what is it like? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I've only managed it once, flying around a featureless void, exulting in the feeling of control. Then a fistfight, again with a featureless opponent. It felt like controlling the dream to that extent and not waking up took a lot of brain power

This Blahaj account is spamming other instances like crazy in c/main@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 11 months ago

Lmao I forgot about these spambots

The clothes you are wearing vanish in an instant. How does this affect you? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 months ago

I'm currently sat on the toilet, I guess I'd take it as my queue to go have a shower

Finally cracked and it's been a rollercoaster. in c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Same girl, I'm still totally hung up on passing, even though I know I'm still questioning whether I am trans or not. Even though cis people don't get euphoria when they see a picture of someone their age passing, or thinking about being referred to with she/her lol. it's gonna take time but we'll get there queen 👑

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Rowing is a terf, how do I prove it? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

So originally I was sceptical about the TERF claims on rowling (because I didn't want them to be true), I'd assumed terminally online people had decided something silly (as has happened before), but the more I looked at it and thought about it, the more I thought, "Ok, I don't really have proof here, but the odds are looking pretty fucking likely that she is, surely it'd be quite easy for her to just say something publicly like "trans women are women" and it'd be all over".

The problem I'm having at the minute, is my wife still thinks that it's all probably something that's been blown out of proportion, and I can't explain to her why I'm not excited by the new Strike novel, or why I won't play the Harry Potter game. How do I prove to her that it isn't something that's been blown out of proportion and that Rowling really is a TERF

Military Rule in c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 59 points 1 year ago

Like, I don't agree with the politics, whole situation is filled to the brim with war criminals, but I must shitpost

Hamas is stored in the balls

so im finally taking the plunge and'll be starting hrt soon, ive got estrogel already and im currently looking into getting AA but i was curious about which type to get (im in england btw) in c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

I don't know what matrix is, but I think I'd like that :). It's not that I'm estranged from the local queer scene, I just know literally about it because I didn't know I was queer 🤣 plus I'm really shy at meeting new people which doesn't help

What do you always do to get going when you feel like you are spacing out? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
so im finally taking the plunge and'll be starting hrt soon, ive got estrogel already and im currently looking into getting AA but i was curious about which type to get (im in england btw) in c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sorry you got scammed :( some people are awful, nice to see another UK trans though, I'm still a bit isolated here because I haven't found/explored the queer spaces local to me.

Starting now or next month won't make a difference in the grand scheme of things, either way you're going to be taking steps towards you own happiness and betterment ❤️

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Neck rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 
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A little help with direct downloads (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

So with a little help from the megathread I have a particularly Good website for finding Old Games, and it worked yesterday when I downloaded systemshock2, but now I'm getting a 403 forbidden message. Is this from the site itself? Or is my ISP (virgin) cucking me?

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Ada you are our queen (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

Don't let those shitheels from hexbear get you down. I joined in the 196wave but I've stayed because blahaj is the safe trans affirming space I need right now, and from what I've seen you've been a key voice in making that happen. Thank you for all the hard work you do!

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Bitterule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 
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