Dinonugget

joined 1 year ago
[–] Dinonugget 13 points 1 year ago

Love the drinks, such a cool detail. :)

[–] Dinonugget 2 points 1 year ago

Andy Cooks. Very chill and dedicated guy, his videos always put a smile on my face.

[–] Dinonugget 6 points 1 year ago

This is amazing, thank you for sharing! I'm nonbinary and I've been looking for ways to present more masc without looking stupid for ages. Reading this was super helpful, I know what I'll be paying attention to during my next shopping trip now. :)

[–] Dinonugget 4 points 1 year ago

Exactly! I totally agree with you on the sizes and fits, and they just don't make cute dresses and skirts for men. So aside from it being frowned upon, it's not even easy to access fitting clothes like this for men. Thanks for adding this excellent point :)

[–] Dinonugget 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There being such a small market for lingerie for men and such a big market for lingerie for women is a direct result of heteronormativity and gender norms in my opinion. It's not a coincidence.

[–] Dinonugget 24 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Clothes. It seems crazy to me that men (and often masc presenting enbies too for that matter) can't just wear a dress on a hot summer day without getting weird looks. Or just to feel pretty honestly. Why is something that's about both practicality and self-expression so fundamentally restricted by what genitals you were born with in the eyes of society?

Also, speaking of clothes: lingerie. I have rarely ever seen lingerie designed for men, and even the one that exists seems not nearly as carefully designed as lingerie for women. This makes me sad, it feels like society does not want them to feel pretty and sexy and it's also just unfair to everyone.

(I am focusing mostly on men / masc enbies here because I always had the experience that women wearing "men's clothes" is waaay more accepted nowadays, but feel free to correct me and chime in with your own examples if you disagree!)

[–] Dinonugget 11 points 1 year ago

I didn't really sit down and choose a name, it was given to me. Some friends started calling me by a shorter version of my deadname and I really liked the vibe of it, so I started going by it.

[–] Dinonugget 3 points 1 year ago

I really want you to be right. I want to play this game. :)

[–] Dinonugget 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Same here. I was sooo excited about this game when I first heard of it and saw the trailers. But at this point I barely have any hope left that it will actually be released. It's been so long and too much stuff has happened.

[–] Dinonugget 63 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I just want to tell you... feeling invisible is not a privilege. Feeling like you have to hide who you are because you might never be able to explore it fully is not a privilege. Feeling like you have to pretend to be someone you are not is not a privilege.

"Straight privilege" for queer people is not a thing. It's a form of erasure, plain and simple. And it seems to really hurt you.

Please don't feel like you being able to hide your sexuality is something you need to feel guilty about. It sounds more like you suffer because of this. You have the right to call yourself queer, you are not taking away anything from anyone by coming out and you have the right to be comfortable with who you are.

[–] Dinonugget 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Schritt 4: Antrag auf Löschung nach DSGVO :)

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