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Now that a lot of the commotion has subsided I'm just curious to know how y'all are finding the Lemmy experience in general and whether you use it regularly like you did reddit?

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[–] andallthat@feddit.it 100 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So far so good. In a smaller community I feel more responsible for contributing to discussions. Others seem to be engaging too with thoughtful comments (not just karma-farming inside jokes).

This is helped by the fact that new interesting threads are not immediately buried in heaps of new content, so you actually have time to think of an answer that someone might actually read and reply to. I realize that this is mostly a function of the current scale of the Fediverse and that the more it grows, the more it might just turn into Reddit.

[–] TrustingZebra@lemmy.one 15 points 1 year ago

I find I tend to get more replies here.

[–] moreeni@lemm.ee 68 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

It's the Fediverse that I have been searching for.

Somebody on Lemmy made this quote I really like:

Twitter is people you care about posting content you don't care about. Reddit is people you don't care about posting content that you do care about

Twitter-like Fedi never clicked for me. I made a bunch of accounts over the course of two, maybe three years, each starting with the intention of maybe making new friends and having a good time. I met a ton of cool people but we never became good friends because I never got really invested into it, simply because my feed was never something I hoped it would be, something exciting.

Lemmy gives me exactly what I was searching for. I didn't use it prior to thr Reddit migration because there were too few people but now I am very happy

[–] Samsy@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago

Just another quote I read about twitter/Mastodon:

"You simply shout into the void and hope someone answer."

Lemmy and Reddit feel more like the old forum culture. And that's better, imo.

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[–] Squirrel@thelemmy.club 42 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Eh, it scratches the itch. I don't touch reddit anymore, outside of web searches. Still, I miss the niche communities that only a massive site like reddit can give life.

[–] TheOakTree 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Same, I do all of my browsing here but still look up things like "baldurs gate 3 quest/item/enemybugged reddit" because it's the only place I can find answers, outside of the occasional steam forum post.

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[–] bravado@feddit.de 37 points 1 year ago

I'm just still missing communities that are only on Reddit rn.

Other than that... I'd argue the Lemmy ux is already far superior, so that's great.

[–] DominicDeligann@lemmy.ml 36 points 1 year ago (1 children)

i moved to lemmy before the reddit api changes. in january 2023 i stopped using all proprietary software and was looking for alternetives. its way better than reddit, im never going back...

[–] chrizbie@lemmy.nz 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

There's good reason to love Lemmy, and since joining I've also gone very Foss and privacy centric but I just feel like it's a bit quiet, maybe it's just me

[–] WtfEvenIsExistence@reddthat.com 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Quiet?

AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH

How's that?

AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

[–] chrizbie@lemmy.nz 11 points 1 year ago

🀌 perfection

[–] gst0ck@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

It's very quiet but it's so much more personable in the comments.

[–] PrettyFlyForAFatGuy@lemmy.ml 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd like to see more human posts than just meme posting and news.

[–] EddoWagt@feddit.nl 11 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Yeah, I'd love to have my niche communities back as well

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[–] Dinodicchellathicc@lemmy.ml 23 points 1 year ago

Lemmy is great and all. Love it more then I ever did reddit. But it seems like instances are more politically polarized than your average subreddit. It kinda harshes my mellow.

I do like that people feel more genuine as opposed to just broken records repeating overused talking points.

[–] Vlyn@lemmy.zip 21 points 1 year ago (12 children)

Pretty good, it's my Reddit replacement (except for Google searches where I still put site:reddit.com, searching Lemmy doesn't work that well..).

Choosing an instance sucked though.

I went like:

  1. sh.itjust.works: Found out they're Canadian, the latency was too much for Europe
  2. lemmy.ml: Overall pretty good, I liked that NSFW instances were defederated, so I could browse All without seeing porn. Till I realized there is a slur filter that censors your comments and others. So if someone calls you a 'bitch' on the Fediverse everyone can read it, except you. You see 'removed'
  3. lemmy.world: Largest instance, plenty of local content, good policies overall, but the stability was awful (due to DDOS)
  4. lemmy.zip: Smaller instance, full federation, super fast and in the EU, I'm staying there for now and moved all my subscriptions and blocked communities (mostly porn, again, I like to browse All) over
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[–] Nioxic@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think its great

Overall a much more friendly bunch of people here.

Thanks you guys! Youre all awesome!

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[–] Kubongi@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 year ago

I love it very much. Meanwhile I almost forgot, that reddit once was important to me.

[–] lichtmetzger@feddit.de 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I love that Lemmy has a small, but dedicated userbase and much less flamewars than Reddit. Seems like most people are actually here for good content and not just trolling everyone else.

I also like that the feed just ends eventually and I can close the app instead of doomscrolling through the whole night.

And I hope that toxic gamification features like global karma or awards will always stay out of here. The dopamine rushes from those are just bad for my brain and these features are really unneccessary.

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[–] JimmyDean@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Imo it feels like the reddit migration has died down, but a good chunk the users that have stuck around are actually engaged in their communities. I've been seeing more instances created too, which is cool because it means people are hosting their own.

More recently I've noticed that Sync actually plays embedded videos now, which is probably the best update since its release. It's feeling a lot more user-friendly and that should help it keep growing organically.

The only times I use reddit anymore is browsing with old.reddit a couple times a week. I don't even login to that site now because I don't engage with anything, I just check the news and stuff then come back to Lemmy.

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[–] R9442@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Most of the niche communities I followed aren't on here so my usage is drastically lower than before. I find Lemmy to be generally nice as a platform-especially now with infinity for Lemmy out, I've come to forget that I'm no longer on reddit!

Just wish that there was more to go on here. Memes and tech can only keep me scrolling for so long.

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[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I use it daily.

Of the two different things I used Reddit for, Lemmy is a 100% replacement for one, but sadly lacking in the other.

  1. Current events (news, politics, etc...) the transition to Lemmy was seamless.

  2. Tech Support on specific niche software (kdenlive, Scribus, Gimp, etc...) is still lacking. there aren't a lot of communities dedicated to specific hobbies where a person can ask and answer questions from other users.

In regards to #1, there is actually one area where Lemmy has an advantage in my case. Because my local instance is my country instance, having that third "local" option means that I can, without any searching, keep up to date on national current events as well.

it's like being in a Canada only news site, and then if I want, I can hit "all" and see the rest of it. it's super easy in a way that Reddit couldn't be.

[–] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Authoritarian propaganda is kind of ruining it for me. I came in excited to help build something together and now I wouldn't recommend it to anyone.

Maybe I'd recommend an instance that doesn't federate with Hexbear, ExplodingHeads, or Lemmygrad.

[–] wandermind@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 year ago

I was going to say "what authoritarian propaganda" because I don't see any of that shit, but yeah, my instance doesn't federate with those places. The strength and the weakness of a federated system, I suppose!

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[–] Pixel@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 1 year ago

Switched to lemmy 100% after 17+ years of reddit, daily user. I think it's ok but increasingly getting annoyed with a couple things. The rampant extreme politics and phrasing as if it's fact, and people complain about cross posts but I literally see the same exact posts (same community) over and over as I scroll through the feed. Other than that it doesn't nearly have much content but that's to be expected.

[–] Geth@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 year ago

It's been better since moving away from lemmy.world, then Sync being available also helped a lot. But unfortunately as many have noted already, this is not as easy to get into for more casual users so it's heavily biased towards tech topics and communities. Smaller communities will probably take a lot longer to take off if at all and I'm sad about that loss so far.

[–] HiImYourDadsSon@reddthat.com 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

To be honest I don't use it nearly as much as I used Reddit. Haven't been on Reddit since the fuckening except for a couple of times, but my Lemmy usage is at maybe 10% pf what my Reddit usage was.

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[–] Kom@aussie.zone 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Once I found Liftoff, I've used Lemmy exclusively. It's fantastic, I don't feel as intimated about commenting (even though this is my first on this account) I've found most of my interests again in different communities. There are still a few I don't have, but that will sort itself out in time.

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[–] smeeps@feddit.uk 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Really wish there was more content. I've been trying to post stuff but I never get any comments either. Anything other than the few mainstream communities is just dead

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[–] 1984@lemmy.today 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think it's fine but I admit I don't think it's very fun with one centralized Lemmy instance. Feels like reddit all over again. The idealist in me wanted a distributed network instead, with popular communities spread out across hundreds of instances run by volunteers.

But on the plus side, we can talk without corps being involved and that's really, really nice. I don't even use any big tech sites anymore except github.

[–] zeekaran@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Literally my entire wall is either:

  • extreme tech industry junk
  • asks
  • cats

I would love some diversity but everything I've subscribed to is either the above, or dead.

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[–] Romanmir@lemmy.today 9 points 1 year ago

One of things that I like most about it that it isn’t algorithmic. When I crash for the night, I look at the most popular over the last 12 hours, and then… I’m done.

[–] Ilandar@aussie.zone 9 points 1 year ago

I engage a lot more with general communities than I used to because the quality of poster is so much higher here. People are more likely to engage in good faith discussion and offer more than just those low effort redditor joke comments that site has become notorious for. There is just no point commenting in larger communities and threads on reddit, because you'll get buried by lazy meme comments and the one person who does sort by new is mostly likely looking for conflict rather than a conversation.

[–] chrizbie@lemmy.nz 9 points 1 year ago

For me it seems to have wained a bit, I feel like a lot of casual users have gone silent recently, the content I'm seeing is more specific to niche topics and communities

[–] Underwaterbob@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

My favorite niche communities have come to Lemmy, but they're very inactive. Which is good and bad. There's much less filler content, but less substantial content as well. It's nice not having to scroll through miles of junk to find the good stuff, but I do wish there was a little more good stuff.

Overall, I think I'm glad for the change. I wasted a little too much time on Reddit for sure. Here, at least I can pop on and see that there's nothing new I'm interested in and do something else rather than scrolling through all that filler to find a nugget or two.

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 9 points 1 year ago

I like not having to scroll through the same standard comments on every post. There might be fewer comments here, but they're higher quality. I mostly used reddit for news which Lemmy covers just as well. Regardless of the API changes and enshitification Reddit simply got too big. Between the marketing and other sorts of vote manipulation, reddit basically stopped providing a useful overview of even news. The hivemind pushed the same dead horse to the front every day.

[–] UdeRecife@literature.cafe 9 points 1 year ago

I'm really enjoying Lemmy so far. I've posted more here in one and a half months than in 16+ years on ~~reddit~~ astroturfbay. Why?

Because here feels like friendly neighbourhood square where people actually care to listen to each other. Whatever happens here feels way more organic and people-oriented than elsewhere. No algos dictating agendas just because more engagement=more profit.

So yeah, I really like this place.

[–] OrangeJoe@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm enjoying it so far. It doesn't have the same user base or niche communities of reddit yet, so for now I'm just doing more general browsing. There just doesn't seem to be enough of a diverse set of interest yet. So at first it was a ton of posts about sync, currently it's a ton of posts about LTT. And it's just full of memes. Definitely could use a wider range of topics and interests.

That said there are a couple of really obnoxious instances that are highly political and as much as I am trying to avoid that, the users of those instances seem to dominate any thread even remotely political. It's quite annoying.

[–] KRAW@linux.community 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

TBH, I think I dislike it only slightly less than reddit. Don't get me wrong, I like the idea of the fediverse and what not. However, I see a lot of posts around here saying that lemmy is so much better than reddit, but I don't necessarily agree. Culturally I see a lot of the same behavior between the two. The main difference is there are a lot less "Facebook-like" posts and way more tech nerd-centric opinions. I would even argue that there is a lack of cultural balance. Like most of the people here are extremists in one way or the other (this includes me), and there are less "normal" people. I think this is probably what some of the users here actually want because they thirst for the "good ol' days" of forums before some of nerd culture leaked into the mainstream, but I'm not sure it's my cup of tea. Furthermore something that is sort of both a feature and a downside is that there is way less content here for obvious reasons. It's nice not to have an endless feed, but again, due to cultural imbalance, there isn't much variety. I love using linux, but I don't know if I care to have my feed engulfed by it. I'm not sure if the time I spend in Lemmy is really a net positive, just like how reddit felt. I'd say the most positive aspect of reddit was I could subscribe to a city specific subreddit and actually get news and info that is useful to my day to day life, whereas the info here is just useful for keeping me in my house or absorbed in work.

Please do not tell me to suck it up and contribute my own content. The point of this comment is not to get the community to "fix" lemmy for me but simply to relay an observation.

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[–] Leo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 year ago

I miss episode anine episode discussions and isk what im doing wrong but sometimes I find a good instance but cannot access their feed from my account, and I dont wanna create another account or add the subs individually, you even see it has more post than subs most of the time. Aside from that its great, feels like im not required to say something that fishes for upvotes thus I comment a bit more

[–] Rusky_900@reddthat.com 8 points 1 year ago

Happy. The only issue I have is scale. IMO there was nothing ground breaking about Reddit as either an idea or a piece of tech, it's value mostly comes from its users. Lemmy does not have the sheer breadth from scale that I enjoyed with Reddit, but hopefully that will come.

[–] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately, I'm finding Lemmy 2023 just as shallow as Reddit 2023.

[–] whome@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 1 year ago

I use it less, but I actually like it that way, plus I have no urge to go back to Reddit. So all good.

[–] SolNine@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago

Since Sync came out, absolutely love it! Hope more people join!

[–] dbilitated@aussie.zone 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I do miss some of the more specialist communities on reddit but honestly this is great for just scrolling stuff, and it's completely replaced reddit for that.

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Feels like a small club (not that I attended much clubs), I often recognize some usernames. In big social medias, there are so many users posting that you don't often see the same user often enough to recognize their username. On Lemmy, you get sort of mini celebrities, they're always on the front page (I sort by All/Hot).

[–] Silviecat44@aussie.zone 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I must admit. I have relapsed to reddit somewhat due to the lack of specific video game communities here. I use Comet for reddit (iOS) which still works

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[–] wrath-sedan@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

Liking it a lot! I was thinking the other day about how we’ve pretty successfully made the jump away from every other thread being about Reddit or technical issues to having many general interest communities and some niche ones that are continuing to diversify.

Obviously we’re not nearly at the scale of Reddit yet (considering the entire Fediverse could fit inside some singular subreddits) but I’ve tried to make up for less content by making more myself and actually engaging with people instead of lurking.

[–] jungekatz@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

Tbh I was never a regular reddit user , no matter how much I tried , however since I have joined lemmy, I am using it like a lot ! Enjoying it here a lot !

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