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I caught myself loads of times scrolling on Reddit while not even paying attention, or while scrolling on Reddit to then close it immediately opening Reddit again to continue scrolling.

It felt just like any other social media app, scrolling mindlessly, for at least a few hours a day. I noticed this has changed since I've been using Lemmy, where I might spend 30 minutes a day on. I'm curious if other experience this too! It feels nice to be freed from Reddit.

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[–] TheWeirdestCunt@lemm.ee 131 points 1 year ago (3 children)

The only reason I use Lemmy less than I used reddit is the lack of content, I was following so many subreddits that every time I sorted by new I could scroll for hours before I hit the posts I'd seen last time I opened the app. Here there just aren't as many communities and a lot of the ones I'm following are dead so my feed is just the same 20 posts every time I open it.

[–] demesisx@slrpnk.net 13 points 1 year ago

I probably had only around 70 subs in my list of Reddit. On lemmy, I have 274.

[–] mannycalavera@feddit.uk 6 points 1 year ago

This a thousands percent.

[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

Agreed, but it seems to be improving

[–] buwho@lemmy.ml 30 points 1 year ago

Im beginning to use lemmy more and more and preferring it over reddit. Its much better, conversationally and without the suggested Jesus and Army and Navy ads etc. However my usage is still similar to reddit, ie scrolling and reading alot of things and memes etc. But the conversational interactions seem alot more productive, i like that.

[–] redballooon@lemm.ee 29 points 1 year ago

I'd like to to spend the same time on Lemmy, but then I just see the same posts all over again.

[–] mojo@lemm.ee 24 points 1 year ago

Yeah cuz I tend to run out of content quicker, but it gets refilled quite a bit throughout the day

[–] JudahBenHur@lemm.ee 23 points 1 year ago

100οΌ…. I was so addicted to reddit I would, like you said, open it without even noticing I did it. It was really shocking to me how many hours a day I was pissing away reading the reposts of bots and the thoughts of teen edge lords. The protests came at a great time, havent been back since (my sub is still on private hehe..) anyway, popping in here is fun and everything but I dont think it'll ever get as bad as it was.

[–] demesisx@slrpnk.net 19 points 1 year ago

Nope. I spend significantly more time, attempting to engage and energize this community. :)

[–] AdaShovelace@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I spend more time on Lemmy, but that's mostly because I admin an instance.

[–] Vex_Detrause@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 year ago

We appreciate you admins and mods!

[–] z3n0x@feddit.de 11 points 1 year ago

not sure if more or less, but the time spent here is 100% more enjoyable. With corporate social media there's always this vague sense of brain-rot going on in the background. Don't feel this here. Actually had some nice conversations over the fast few weeks.

[–] quaddo@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes. Like others have said, the content hasn't quite caught up in volume or diversity.

But I think another factor is that when I fire up Lemmy, it feels like r/all in that I'm getting everything. There seem to be quite a number of meme-themed ~~subreddits~~ communities that dominate my All feed. Now that I think about it, I should probably make the effort to block those; I've made that effort on kbin.

In a way, I think it might be nice to have something equivalent to r/popular, fwiw.

Minor nit: "community" ("magazine" on kbin) doesn't have the same 'zing' as "subreddit". We need something like "sublemmy" or "sublem".

Root problem Is the name 'Lemmy', which is kinda lame-y.

Also bad is that we're not called Redditors but ... lemmings? Lemurs?

Almost worth changing the name.

[–] ProcurementCat@feddit.de 7 points 1 year ago

My browsing time has reduced significantly. My user experience during browsing has improved vastly.

[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 year ago

Mostly cuz there's a lot less stuff to do here. A lot of my favorite communities haven't migrated over yet., and the ones that are here aren't very active. The ALL feed seems to be mostly news, politics, and old memes, nothing I really care for.

[–] Mereo@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago

I spend a lot more time in Lemmy. The conversations here are engaging and intelligent and I actually learn something. Reddit on the other hand was overwhelming as your comment can easily be drowned out by thousands of comments and shit comments.

I enjoy my time here. And Reddit? What is a Reddit? Never heard of it...

[–] ChrissieWF@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

~~No, since I can't sensibly use Reddit on my phone.~~
I misread - yes, I use Lemmy somewhat less now than I used to use Reddit. Which is probably a good thing^^

I think I'm still getting used to lemmy and navigating around I think subconsciously I am put off by this.. Once I get the hang of it I am sure my habits will go back.

[–] hamsteronvase@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What pissed me off about reddit is how it fingerprinted your machine.

If you don't know what that is, be scared. Be very scared.

That meant if some power-mad admin lording it over some subreddit blocked me for petty reasons, it would be easy to get all my other 6 alt accounts permanently banned.

F YOU for that, reddit.

Found some anti-fingerprinting defenses, which protect me at other sites, is the only silver lining.

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[–] jmp242@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I actually am spending about the same amount of time on Lemmy as I used to on reddit, modulo interesting posts for me to interact with.

[–] Jeff@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Me too. I’m glad to not have any more or less really and content here seems to not yet be from the same 20 ppl.

[–] lorez@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

No, I spend more time here.

[–] cc8@infosec.pub 5 points 1 year ago

For me it is quite the opposite. Using Connect app, and enabling "Hide read posts while scrolling" there is endless fresh content every time I scroll during the day

[–] Borgzilla@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've noticed this too. Most of the stuff on Reddit's frontpage has an angry undertone. Anger = Engagement.

[–] Oka@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Yes. Lemmy goes down too, forcing me to step away from it.

[–] AnonymousLlama@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

I've been splitting my old Reddit time across multiple sites and projects now. I'm pretty keen on watching the content at squabbles, they've generally got a really positive environment and nice pictures.

Also been working on improving kbin since it's open source, great to get some mobile centric changes to make everyone's experience a little better πŸ¦™

[–] implicit_cast@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah. Lemmy and kbin don't do infinite scrolling by default and it's made me a lot happier.

When I hit the end of page 1, I stop and find something more useful to do with my time.

[–] Valdair@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

I’d like for kbin/Lemmy to be a full substitute, but right now only meme subs on lemmy are taking off or getting significant traction. It’s actually sort of annoying and makes me not want to bother. Apps are rough, block tools are inconsistent, see tons of posts twice or more all day (would happen on Reddit too, but pretty rarely, when big news was relevant to several large subreddits). Until the smaller subs I frequented Reddit for in the first place start coming over, kbin/lemmy can’t realistically be a replacement. Just something I check for a few minutes to try to leave app feedback and contribute traffic where I can.

It will take a very good app and a couple more high profile niche subs (like /r/piracy) mostly shifting to the Fediverse to start a real migration.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 year ago

Nope. I feel like I spend about as much. I comment a lot, though, so the doomscrolling factor is probably less important.

[–] HowlsSophie 4 points 1 year ago

Yes. There's less content to scroll through here (not a bad thing) so ensures scrolling isn't a thing anymore. I'll still visit a certain Reddit sub from time to time but at some point I'll probably let that go too.

[–] RatzChatsubo@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I mainly access reddit by Google searches, so yes unfortunately I am still tied down to reddit somewhat. Too mad Lemmy never is a result on Google when asking a question

[–] kresten@feddit.dk 2 points 1 year ago

My hope is that there will be eventually. Lemmy is slowly surfacing already, before, when searching 'lemmy' on google, the musician had a big display, now it's toned down and shared with lemmy making some of the top results.

[–] Im28xwa@lemdro.id 3 points 1 year ago

Nope, the same amount of time

[–] orca@orcas.enjoying.yachts 3 points 1 year ago

Yes. I browse for less time now, but I find the interactions and content on Lemmy and other federated sites to be more enriching, interesting, and civil.

[–] guybrush@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yeah, and it's a good thing... also, I comment now which I didnt really bother to do on reddit.

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I actually find myself spending more time here, to the point to where I might have to take a break because it's starting to become unhealthy.

I think the reason why is since there are less posts per volume, it's easier to read through everything. Since the communities are smaller, the news and discussion is more focused. And because a lot of the more tech savy and activist minded individuals made the switch over to lemmy, I find it easier to have more nuanced conversation than on reddit.

However some of my bad habits from reddit are starting to resurface here, and I probably need to start regulating my time here. At the very least, I feel like I get a lot more out of my time and participation here.

[–] adonis@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I reduced my time on both platforms.

On reddit most of my favorite subs eventually ended up mostly inactive.

And on lemmy/kbin it's either kinda scattered all across, or federation is not consistent like missing comments/votes, which makes it less fun to use, tbh.

[–] kev_handle 2 points 1 year ago

I do spend much less time, but it's a good thing. I was heavily addicted to Reddit. Lemmy scratches that itch, but it's not completely dominating my focus like Reddit had been. It feels like a much healthier relationship I'm having with social media than I had before, and I'm experiencing significantly less anxiety day to day the past few weeks. I'm 100% a doom scroller.

[–] takeda@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm on kbin (I think it has much better algorithm that lemmy, and magazines/communities look more active even though it is the same network) and tildes.net.

Initially I felt like I had to visit reddit, but over past days lemmy/kbin feels more and more active. Still not like reddit, but active enough to not feel the need to go to reddit. It's possible that maybe I just found right communities that I'm interested in, or numer of people increased, or both.

[–] ebits21@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago
[–] thumbtack 1 points 1 year ago

maybe less, though i’ve also been spending less time on social media like that lately anyways. though i do like lemmy, reddit has a lot more content in general and subs for my more niche interests (mostly battlejackets), so i do find myself scrolling there a fair amount. it tends to be a more conscious decision though, which is good, and i tend to stick to only a few subs that i really like. less mindless scrolling, more hunting for inspiration and conversation.

I use Kbin less, possibly due to a lower amount of content, but I surely use it way more deliberately

[–] rm_dash_r_star@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I spend more time on Lemmy. More interesting content, more commenting on my part.

[–] fearout@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'd say a similar amount of time, but I post and comment significantly more here. And I like kbin's vibe a lot more than I did reddit's for the last few years, so I don't even miss it. This place is nice :)

[–] timicin@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

since making the fediverse my new home; i learned that i spend an hour (maybe 2 max) before i run out of content and i can spend 4+ hours without noticing while scrolling reddit even though i no longer have an account there and can't participate in any conversations anymore.

[–] ezmack@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah it's slower with less people. Reddit I scrolled to find stuff, where as I use lemmy to post things i find