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Shower Thoughts

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[–] Otome-chan@kbin.social 177 points 1 year ago (7 children)

you left reddit because 3rd party apps were being killed off.

I left reddit because reddit sucks and I've been looking for an alternative for a long while now.

We are not the same.

[–] milkytoast@kbin.social 37 points 1 year ago (1 children)

i left because 3rd party apps were being killed off, I'm staying because this is a superior community

[–] nightauthor@kbin.social 25 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I left because the way they went about killing third party apps. Bad faith notification, shit communication, and slandering Christian.

[–] XiELEd@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago

I left because having that sort of person at the helm is just disconcerting.

[–] jcrm@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

Same, they could have easily bundled in third party apps as only something you can use with Reddit gold or something, and I would have happily done that.

[–] Inamin@kbin.social 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's showerthoughts. not supposed to be taken entirely literally!

[–] Otome-chan@kbin.social 50 points 1 year ago (1 children)

my post is in the format of a meme, it's not supposed to be taken seriously. but yeah it's pretty ironic.

[–] Inamin@kbin.social 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

my meme game is obviously severely lacking.

[–] Fatalchemist@kbin.social 43 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not understanding every meme? Believe it or, straight to jail.

[–] Contortion@kbin.social 13 points 1 year ago

Not understanding every meme? That's a paddlin'.

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[–] PtitSerpent@kbin.social 20 points 1 year ago

![https://indianmemetemplates.com/wp-content/uploads/we-are-not-the-same.jpg](we are not the same)

[–] Zadkine@kbin.social 14 points 1 year ago

Maybe the lack of third-party apps is the friends we made along the way?

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[–] Kaldo@kbin.social 104 points 1 year ago (3 children)

People are not moving over here for convenience, it's new young software with many flaws and missing features. I think most of us are just looking for a brighter future of social networks, one not dictated by a megacorporation and instead segmented more under our individual control. It's impossible for this to match reddit in everything since that's a company with thousands of employees and a 10 year headstart, but perfect shouldn't be an enemy of good.

[–] wr4th4@kbin.social 20 points 1 year ago

yup, i am here because third party apps or no, Reddit was just a horrible place to be anymore. i'm loving the 'wild wild west' of similar apps and a new social network i'd never experienced before.

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[–] InduperatorRex@kbin.social 78 points 1 year ago (5 children)

To be fair, kbin on a mobile browser is already leagues above the official reddit app

[–] turn_to_follow@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

About the only thing that sucks is the comments being separated by page. Also, I don't seem to get notification when someone replies to a comment/post.

So the only thing lacking here is just the user numbers

[–] LeafyPasserine@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I had that problem too but turns out I didn't turn on notifications in settings. Maybe tweaking that might help?

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[–] Eavolution@kbin.social 53 points 1 year ago (2 children)

To me, I loved using Relay for Reddit, but them killing the 3rd party apps in itself wasn't why I left. The whole situation just showed that Reddit doesn't care about the community, they just care about profit, and they'll happily shaft the users and prominent members of the community.

[–] kaos95@kbin.social 15 points 1 year ago

This, I was all going with the flow with the blackout (my 3rd party app in particular is apparently "in talks" so good chance won't get shut down), but after the AMA I just left. I spend time here and on tildes, fulfills my need to be social on the internet.

Hell, before the AMA I was willing to pay a sub to use an app on my phone, not anymore . . . after all the shit of the past decade I am just done, and I think there are thousands like me.

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[–] CynAq@kbin.social 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I don't think most people left solely because of 3rd party apps being killed. I think they left because of the loss of trust that move and the subsequent negative PR created.

It's natural people are looking for something new, even though the quality of life is lower for now. Some things are more important than convenience.

Edit: I forgot to answer the question. No, I don't think it's ironic. I think it's telling.

[–] in2erval@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Well for me it's that Reddit simply won't have any third-party apps in the near future (because of the pricing), while fediverse apps like lemmy and kbin, despite not having a wide range of options for them right now, can have as many as it wants and have no way to kill them.

Plus if they're wiling to do this, who knows whether they'll keep old.reddit.com around in the near future as well?

[–] albinanigans@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I give old.reddit a year max before they finally axe it.

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[–] SINapps@kbin.social 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

He'll, I typically used the reddit app rather than 3rd party, but they're doing too much shady-ass shit, and have been for too long (mainly thinking of the mod situation and how a few mods control a vast amount of content without seemingly any oversight). It's weird over here, but it reminds me of when I joined reddit more than 10 years ago now, it's got that vibe, ya know?

[–] Dickbutt@kbin.social 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I was in the Wild West of the internet once, I’ll be in the Wild West of the internet again.

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[–] Hyacathusarullistad@kbin.social 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

tl;dr — fediverse will only improve from today, while Reddit will only decline.

I've used a third party app (Relay) for browsing Reddit for eight years now. It's what I'm used to, and interacting with the same content in a lesser format feels bad.

I've been using Kbin for eight days, and only know it from the mobile browser. Is it as pleasant to interact with as Relay was? No. But the difference is that it will only improve from here. My Reddit experience is primed only to get worse.

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[–] DannySpud@kbin.social 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Browsing on mobile without being asked to log into the app every 10 seconds is already a huge improvement for me.

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[–] density@kbin.social 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I also find it interesting that lack of mod tools is a big complaint of reddit but it seems that lack of mod tools is immediately an issue on kbin/lemmy.

But the decisions made on one vs the other are moving in the opposite directions.

This is a new town, not a razed town.

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[–] Calcharger@kbin.social 14 points 1 year ago

There's a difference between "actively killing" and "actively developing" third party apps.

You look to the future, not the past or present

[–] tookmyname@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I left Reddit because they killed 3rd party apps. I came somewhere 3rd party apps can’t be killed. Also, there’s several 3rd party apps.

[–] AnakinSandlover@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

kbin (where the op is) still doesn't have a 3rd party app, although someone's already working on it.

[–] m-p-3@kbin.social 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

At least the alternatives come with functional and decent mobile websites.

[–] stephfinitely@kbin.social 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

While technically correct, I left reddit because the API pricing was more of less the last straw in a long list of issues Reddit has had. It was more of a sign of things to come. This is basically what happened with Digg and why people jumped to reddit.

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[–] ianhclark510@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Are you on crack my dude? I'm viewing this post from Jerboa right now

[–] AnakinSandlover@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago

OP is on kbin which is different code from lemmy. Someone's working on a 3rd party app from kbin but right now there isn't.

[–] Adlantor@kbin.social 11 points 1 year ago

It’s not about the 3rd party apps, it’s about sending a message.jpg

[–] BarrierWithAshes@kbin.social 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Well browsing this on a simple browser isn't that bad. Miles better than trying to browse Reddit on a mobile browser.

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[–] LegendofDragoon@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago (8 children)

There aren't many/any 3pa at the moment, but the admins also didn't recently enact policy changes that are aggressively anti third party, so there's that at least.

Plus the mobile layout is perfectly serviceable on Firefox right now.

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[–] Devadander@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago

We aren’t here because this is a better experience. It clearly is not. Reddit has had years of polishing and 3rd party development to make the user experience what it was. Here there’s server crashes, little content, interesting UI choices, and no real idea if this one is going to ‘win’ over some of the other alternatives.

But Reddit killing 3rd party apps is too heavy handed, and people don’t like that. We don’t want to see ads. I’d rather go outside than subject myself to advertisements. We’re bombarded by ads from all directions 24/7 and it’s too much.

Additionally, Reddit will be able to manipulate content and spread propaganda without oversight once they take their users in-house. I’m not interested in being programmed by whoever is invested in the site. This isn’t about ‘3rd party apps’ even though it’s about the apps. This is about leaving a site that is actively going against the users’ best interests on multiple fronts.

[–] dominoko@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago

It's more than that though.... (I know it's just a showerthought but I'm explaining anyway)

Reddit's mobile experience through the browser is terrible and nearly unusable since it prompts you to download the app when you try to do anything
Reddit's official app is also terrible for a myriad of reasons.
Spez's attitude toward the whole thing really put me off more than anything else

On the other hand:
Kbin and Lemmy both work really well on a mobile browser. An app will be great but it's not necessary to enjoy the site.

[–] Segnis 9 points 1 year ago

Jokes on you lemmy has apps

[–] razorwiregoatlick@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago

The difference is that once a third part app is made for this community I don’t have to worry about some greedy asshole ruining it for profit. I am patient and this community is actually better.

[–] hardypart@feddit.de 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It bears a certain irony, that's true. The difference is that the mobile version of Lemmy already feels like a clean third party app. As a long time RiF user I felt at home right away.

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[–] milkytoast@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

kbin doesn't need a third party app because the website works great, and unlike reddit, isnt filled to the brim with ads and trackers

[–] insomniac_lemon@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

Robot 0: "There is, no more unethical treatment of the elephants."
Robot 1: "Well there's no more elephants, so..."
Robot 0: "Ah."
Robot 1: "...but still it's good."

0:50 of Robots, by Flight of the Conchords

[–] PtitSerpent@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I didn't even know 3rd party apps exists before this storm lol, and I haven't even seen the decline of Reddit because I'm on it since the end of 2019 😅
But I can see that an alternative is really important.

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[–] VulcanSphere@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

For Vulcan, the strongest impetus to move to kbin was the Snoo Platform's decision to change how API will be accessed, and also Apollo drama.

Vulcan was a Relay user and Relay's dev decision to move into subscription model (can't blame the dev) due to corporate greed of Snoo Platform's execs successfully alienated me from the Snoo Platform.

[–] cloaker@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

May l ask why you refer to yourself in the third person?

Same though, Ijdawson's sync for reddit is closing :(

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[–] Nepenthe@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Ah, but there are also no ads and to my knowledge I've yet to see one single bot. For the near future, anyway. Besides, it's not like I'd still have them in a few weeks if I weren't here

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[–] DracolaAdil@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

If you think about it in a different sense...every instance is a 3rd party app

Mind blown!!

P.s. - first comment in the fediverse...(I don't like that word)...in the Federation!!!!

[–] effingjoe@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

Well, to be more accurate, the reddit stuff was due to API changes, which would result in fewer 3rd party apps. (and arguably designed for this result).

The kbin API is still a WIP, but it's free to use.

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