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[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

You guys are way too precious about your public toilets.

[–] towelie@lemm.ee 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Peacefully disobeying the law is not a good idea under fascism. This was a brave, albeit really stupid, thing to do. I hope this woman makes it out okay.

[–] Xtallll@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sometimes the arrest is the protest.

[–] zooi@feddit.nl 3 points 1 day ago

Don't get yourself vcoded out of protest please

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 39 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Relevant facts:

  • she self identifies as a "moderate conservative", also identifying as a "centrist" who cares about "family values"
  • she is a devout Catholic
  • she lives in Illinois and traveled to Florida just to do this
  • before going to Florida, she sent letters to lawmakers stating her intention to break the law, including when and where she would and a photo of herself (police were thus posted at the location and time she indicated, hence why she was arrested)
  • she explicitly identifies as not a "political activist"
  • she is breaking the law because she thinks it is wrong (she is engaging in civil disobedience), though she did not expect to actually be arrested
  • she didn't consult any legal or advocacy groups before doing this
  • she was arrested upon going into the restroom and washing her hands, after cops posted at the bathroom told her not to; she was held in the men's ward of the Leon County Detention Facility overnight, and she faces 60 days of incarceration if convicted
  • she is back in Illinois but will have to fly back to Florida for hearings
  • she didn't expect to be arrested and regrets doing it

source: Tampa Bay Times (archive.ph link)

[–] Revan343@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

Idiot: ✓

Identifies as moderate conservative, but is mostly apolitical: ✓

What a surprise.

[–] RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I mean she thought of politics as something philosophical that doesn't actually effect people so I'm not sure how someone this sheltered exists while also being trans. But it's fascinating in a horrifyingly stupid way. It explains why she really thought they wouldn't actually arrest her.

She's actually not mentally prepared to do prison time so I hope they figure something out.

Florida ignoring her legal name change is goofy though.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Probably why some are non voters to, they don't think actually affects them.

[–] RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's beyond stupid though, laws actually exist and we live in functioning society because of them (lol). Laws are created through politics. This isn't a hard concept to grasp, does she think if she speeds she'll never get a ticket? That it's just in movies?

Very strange, scary honestly

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Some people really do just don't think about it much. There's also plenty examples of stuff like "we can't legalize weed, it's illegal drugs!" and then completely missing the contradiction

I don't really know how they think the world works, like they think that laws are just part of the natural order or things? And so politics barely mean anything? Or is just symbolic? I dunno

[–] Ethalis@jlai.lu 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Some people do think that the society we exist in is just part of the natural order and that it's vain to try to change it or even care about it. I had an ex that was like that: whenever I tried talking about politics with her she would just go "What's the point of talking about it, we can't change anything anyway"

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's really weird honestly, considering that, you know, literally all of society is built up by humans

Have they just never read any history at all?

[–] RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think some people feel like history is in the past, and if they weren't there to see it? Well it's no different than a fairy tale.

I guess people heard people say that we have "reached the end of history", and accepted it without question

Seems like history is very much still alive and well

[–] Ethalis@jlai.lu 88 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Placing cops in front of a bathroom just because a trans woman said she would go wash her hands there should sound crazy to anyone. It's sad that it's apparently just normal now

[–] bob_lemon@feddit.org 41 points 3 days ago

Putting people into jail for using a supposed wrong bathroom to wash hands is just ridiculous even without considering anything transgender.

[–] parlaptie@feddit.org 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

So the thing to do now is to announce where you're going to wash your hands to the police and then just not show up.

[–] apotheotic 4 points 2 days ago

Unironically yes, waste their resources on this

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago

And you know those cops fucking relished it

[–] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 21 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I would never be a cop, but even as a pig, I can't imagine getting that assignment and not asking if that was really what the community needed from me that day. And a whole fucking group for one 20yo washing her hands? How embarrassing for them.

[–] towelie@lemm.ee 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

The Nazis didn't have a vast historical record that illustrates the dangers of dehumanizing and imprisoning groups of peoples, and violently smashing protests for fascism; what excuse do these American cops and ICE agents have? I have to conclude that those who participate want this.

Should we be held to higher ethical standards than the Germans of the past? We have a greater awareness of past atrocities and a deeper understanding of their consequences, and contemporary societies are expected to adhere to more stringent ethical guidelines and uphold human rights

[–] slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org 3 points 2 days ago

I really do wonder what they thought getting that assignment. They were probably proud as fuck.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago

It's the Karen's wet dream

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 49 points 3 days ago

All I can say about this is that it's a courageous act.

I genuinely don't know whether it was well considered.