I'm sorry that you're experiencing this! It's completely normal to feel what you're feeling, and what you're going to feel about this relationship going forward.
Sending you the goodest of vibes! 💜
General trans community.
Rules:
Follow all blahaj.zone rules
All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.
Resources:
Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.
Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/
Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/
[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map
[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination
[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/
[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/
[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/
[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org
*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on
I'm sorry that you're experiencing this! It's completely normal to feel what you're feeling, and what you're going to feel about this relationship going forward.
Sending you the goodest of vibes! 💜
Thank you 💕
Oh, that's a sucky betrayal and I feel for you. Have a virtual hug <3
Thank you <3
@apotheotic Your friend may not know they're being transphobic outright. However, on the flip side, if your friend does know, drop her like a bad habit and go no contact.
@Colette_Libertine@mastodon.social They do know, I brought it to their attention, and I've dropped contact yeah.
@apotheotic Good. When we come out, we find out who our friends are. Even some other trans people, unfortunately, give us a hard time.