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[–] based_raven@lemm.ee 2 points 1 hour ago

In 2008, I was lying in bed watching some of the US presidential election on TV. I had no real interest in politics and am not from the US, but it was just something to put on while I fell asleep.

I dozed off then woke up in the middle of the night, and I vividly remember hearing these words come from the TV: "John McCain is the next President of the United States." There was a picture of him on the TV and I think there were some results underneath which showed the votes. Not really caring either way, I turned the TV off and went back to sleep.

When I woke up the next day and went to college, I was absolutely fucking shocked when people were talking about Obama winning. I checked several news sites and they all confirmed Obama had won.

It genuinely feels like I slipped into some alternate reality or some shit because I can remember that line so strongly, and I'm absolutely certain that what I saw on the TV was that John McCain had won.

Could be down to me waking up and possibly being half asleep, but it felt more real than that. It's so weird.

[–] uhmbah@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 hours ago

In my early teens (way before cellular), I heard the land line phone ringing in the kitchen. I ignored it. A very short time later, when I went into the kitchen to grab a snack, I noticed the phone wasn't plugged in.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

This happened when I was 16. I caught a glimpse of a man jumping and waving his hands in the middle of the road, briefly illuminated by my moped’s headlights as I was turning onto another road. I stopped immediately, wondering what the hell I'd just seen. My friend, who was riding behind me, stopped alongside and asked if I'd seen the same thing. We turned around and went back - less than a minute later - and the man was nowhere to be found.

The thing is, there was a deep ditch full of water on the other side of the road, with a huge open field on the other. The only plausible escape route would’ve been through that ditch and into the woods, but there were no signs of that - and it wouldn't have made sense anyway, since he seemed to be deliberately trying to get our attention.

[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 7 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

About 16 years ago my bicycle got stolen from the bike rack at my apartment, lock and all.

6 or 7 months passed and one day something caught my eye as I was getting home. It was my bike, returned to the same rack. The lock was missing, but otherwise it was in good shape.

[–] grooving@lemmy.studio 2 points 6 hours ago

This just happened to me. I can not fathom how they stole it with my big chain lock through the bike frame and the wall mount. Guess I'll wait a few months for it to return. But I can't explain how they took it.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 16 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Okay so I've told this story before.. completely changed my perspective on my beliefs.

One day, I was making food for my young one. He was maybe a bit over 2 years old? Maybe 3. Anyway, I made him food and said "anything you don't eat, I'll put into a baggie".

He then asks "what's a baggie?" I show him the sandwich baggies in the drawer and then explain that grocery bags can also be called "baggies", say "see?" then showed him a plastic grocery bag from the cupboard.

His eyes get all wide then ge starts sobbing. Alarmed, I ask him what's wrong and he sobs "No baggie!!!! No baggie!!!!" I asked him why and he says, still crying, "My old mommy... she put a baggie over my head and I died!" He then immediately stops crying, like nothing had happened, and went to play with his cars. I tried to coax him into repeating what he had just said, like "what? Hun, what do you mean? What did you say?" And he looked at me like I was bonkers and just said "huh?", apparently not remembering what he had said moments before, even after I brought it up at multiple different times of the day.

All of this was completely out of character for him, and nothing like that ever happened again. He was never told about death or shown it in any media at that point or anything else like that, so I was baffled.

It definitely made me rethink my stance on things like reincarnation and stuff like that. It was.. too strange. Never could explain it.

[–] in4apenny@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 10 hours ago

That's really wild. I've heard a bunch of stories like that, however not quite as scary haha.

I have these flashes of memory from my childhood, some go really really far back to 5 years or younger (i'm 34). Memories like my grandfather who passed when I was 5, or an accident I had when I was 1 or 2 involving my finger and a supermarket automatic door. Among those flashes of memory that's been in my head my whole life is a large theater with large red drapes everywhere, it's not a very clear picture but I distinctly remember looking up at the domed white ceiling, ornate pillars, amphitheater shaped room with seatrows rising slightly as they go back. I have never been to such a theater, even now, and I have no idea why I have had a memory of one my whole life even as a child who had never been to or seen a theater before. I sometimes wonder if it's a lingering memory from a past life.

[–] spacequetzal@lemm.ee 1 points 6 hours ago

How I ever fell in love with such a goddamn coward of a man.

[–] Milksteaks@midwest.social 5 points 9 hours ago

Back in the early 2000s I ordered a dvd of John carpenter's In the mouth of madness due to a friend telling me about it. About an hour before me and my little brother prepped for the movie by eating a bag of shrooms. Then we grabbed the DVD package, and when we opened the cardboard package on the DVD black ants just poured out, like hundreds of them. We we're kinda freaked out but saw it as a good omen for the horror to come.

We popped in the movie and watched in complete darkness. Not much interesting or unexplained really happened after that, besides getting mind fucked by ancient inescapable horror while tripping balls. I remember for weeks afterwards being freaked out when the house made noises and a feeling of being watched. I rate the experience a Cthulu/10

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

In my 30s I somehow became very attractive to women and got laid a lot.

[–] Servais@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Well, good for you I would say! Did anything change physically?

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Physically not so much but I just got more confidence.

[–] Servais@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 34 minutes ago
[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 4 points 11 hours ago

I survived to adulthood.

[–] in4apenny@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Back in 2012 I was at a music festival in Australia called Earth Frequency. The festival grounds are like a valley, up along one ridge was the festival itself, paths leading up to it on the festival side of the valley, and the camping was up the other side of the valley going up and over the ridge opposite to the festival. Myself and two others were sitting on a car at the top ridge of camping overlooking the festival, others were grouped around us.

Now I must preface this by saying I was on psychedelics, but I was not tripping balls I had mild visuals and some colours in the dark and that's about it. One other was also on psychedelics, while everyone else was some degree of stoned or drunk as you do at a music festival with friends. The three of us on the car noticed something and was trying to figure out what it was: Three lights, equidistant like a triangle, rotating clockwise. It sort of looked like it was floating in place over the festival, but it also could have been much further away and only looked like it was hovering over the festival from our perspective. The distance of it was one thing we were trying to figure out, but we were also trying to figure out what it was. To me it looked like a kite, triangle shaped with fairy lights or some sort of light source at each point, but it wasn't oscillating with the wind like a kite and it was consistently rotating at a steady rotation so it couldn't have been a kite. We thought maybe some sort of projection or spotlight from the festival, or some sort of mundane test for a laser show, but it looked like the lightsource originated from the thing itself and not some sort of reflection, and even if it was a reflection it still doesn't explain what it was.

We kept staring at it, might've been for almost 10 minutes before someone asked us what we were talking about/looking at, so we pointed it out and others started joining in to figure out what it was, asking all the same questions as us about distance or the light source or its steady rotation. The weirdest part was how steady it was, like unless it's rotating on top of a really tall sturdy pole there's no way it wouldn't at least oscillate up and down, side or side, or something. We kept watching it until suddenly the rotation stopped, all three lights sorta jumped up at the same time, then shot into different directions like bright shooting stars. We jumped around frantically, like "Wtf was that?!" Some of us thought we saw a UAP or UFO, it felt like our group was the only one who noticed it because people were asking what all our commotion was about. The day after we asked everyone we could if they saw what we saw, we met one other couple that saw and described exactly what we saw but from a different angle, neither could figure out if it was above or behind the festival.

I still to this day have no idea what we saw and have no explaination. I'm not much of a UFO guy, I want to believe, but to this day I find myself pondering from time to time what that was.

[–] backscatter@lemm.ee 6 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I saw a big ball of light in the sky years ago. It would drift, hover, zigzag, move in all very strange ways. I researched it for years and couldn't find an explanation for it.

[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I had one similar in Florida once years ago .... 25 years ago now I think ... and this was in Fort Lauderdale.

I was lying in bed in a cheap motel staring up at a sky light and I could see a few stars but not many because of the light pollution. I saw a satellite or a plane in the sky and I started to follow it. Moving from west to east. I didn't think much of it, I've seen lights like it many times in Northern Ontario.

Right directly overhead, in made a right angle turn north .... then a right angle turn back east and continued on its way. It never stopped or slowed down, just turn, turn and kept going.

I couldn't believe it and thought maybe it was a bug on the glass? A helicopter? A speck of dust? It was weird because it followed a steady path across the sky first did a weird right angle turn twice and moved on.

I told my wife who was with me and she didn't think anything of it and said I probably just imagined it. Maybe I did? But I'm very certain of what I saw because I was so shocked by it. I wasn't drinking, no drugs (legal or illegal) and I haven't had anything like it happen to me before or since.

[–] backscatter@lemm.ee 2 points 10 hours ago

Yeah mine had right angle moves too. It would drift diagonally, a bit wobbly, then a 90° turn, then float upwards, down, diagonal, all over the place. It was a solid ball of light, like a meteor, except it was bright whte/silver. Fuzzy around the edges. Then it dipped beneath the horizon and that was the end of it.