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[–] damdy@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Right now, as someone not from the US, star spangled banned would ruin the evening more than anything else I could think of. Everyone can recognize it, arguments would follow.

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 1 points 22 hours ago

I did this with “Everybody Hurts”. Everybody went outside.

[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Saw this irl once. Two dudes, totally tone-deaf decide to sing Aqualung by Jethro Tull...

...as a duet.

Same bar had a dude that would sing Disney princess songs every night. He never went home alone.

Shout out to Dante's in Seattle!

[–] LunarLoony@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 day ago

A Passion Play.

The entire thing. Including the Hare Who Lost His Spectacles.

(Side note: I love this album, but as a karaoke performance I can't imagine it'd go down well)

[–] CaptKoala@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Wrecking Ball- Miley Cyrus.

I could butcher anything, but that, I'll butcher it with glee.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

If you would have said Party in the USA, I would be up there butchering it with you.

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

In the UK any of the below should do the trick, with the added bonus of possibly getting you stabbed and/ or glassed:

Gary Glitter - My Gang

Rolf Harris - Jake the Peg

Lostprophets - Last Train Home

[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

"Peace and Love (Blind Man's Penis)" by John Trubee

In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida. Long song with not a lot of singing.

[–] apotheotic 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Daemnyz@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I don't know how you got to that anwer, this would go hard as balls

[–] apotheotic 1 points 1 day ago

I'm killing the "hyped up" vibes and getting everyone to cozy comfyville

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 5 points 1 day ago

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald. It's a Debbie Downer of a song, it lasts forever, and it gets really repetitive.

[–] iamjackflack@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

Hum the Russian national anthem

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

Meat Loaf - I'd Do Anything For Love - the original album version where there's around 20s of motorcycle sounds and vocals start around 1:50.

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)
[–] white_nrdy@programming.dev 7 points 1 day ago

"Hey hey wait. Let's throw in one It's Not Unusual"

[–] Evoliddaw@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

Instrumental version of Tequila

[–] higgsboson@dubvee.org 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Bloodhound Gang - A Lapdance Is So Much Better When the Stripper is Crying

https://m.soundcloud.com/bloodhound-gang/a-lap-dance-is-so-much-better

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago

I find it quite a thrill...

[–] Nusm@yall.theatl.social 12 points 2 days ago (3 children)

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald by Gordon Lightfoot. A jaunty little sea shanty about a ship sinking in a storm and killing everyone on board.

https://youtu.be/FuzTkGyxkYI

[–] gramie@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

I sang that two nights ago, at our local open mic. Went over very well, but then again the average age was probably over 70.

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

This is definitely the wrong answer.

[–] The_Che_Banana 4 points 2 days ago

Wouldn't work as I'd be singing along

[–] LuxSpark@lemmy.cafe 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 7 points 2 days ago

That's a sing-along song in our local bar, lol!

[–] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 10 points 2 days ago

Urgh just whatever I think might be fun at the time, it's always bad

[–] hihi24522@lemm.ee 8 points 2 days ago
[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 1 points 1 day ago

The Smallest Church in Saint-Saens

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

Live - Lightning Crashes

People would get into it, but it would definitely kill the vibes before then.

[–] burgersc12@mander.xyz 1 points 1 day ago

I Need a Hero. Can't live up to the best version, but I'll try my best!

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 days ago

Somebody that i used to know

[–] Albbi@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 days ago

Goodbye my Lover by James Blunt would work to kill a hyped up mood.

[–] HeartyOfGlass@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

The Mountain Goats' "No Children", but very intensely.

[–] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Blurred Lines

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago

the internationale

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 6 points 2 days ago

I repeat the last song.

Or anything from an obscure screamo band.

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] Skua@kbin.earth 6 points 2 days ago (4 children)

If you're in Scotland when you do this people will sing along with you

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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago
[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 days ago

We Are the World which might be fine if everyone in the bar was fifty-plus, but wouldn't work today.

[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Alice’s restaurant- Arlo Guthrie

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

I worked with a 17 year old once who knew the entire lyrics to Alice's Restaurant and would recite them, not sing them, in the most deadpan voice.

I miss that guy.

[–] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 5 points 2 days ago

If that kills the vibe, you got the wrong crowd.

[–] RobotToaster@mander.xyz 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Woman Is The N***** Of The World

(Although anything by John Lennon would probably work lol)

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[–] tenchiken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago

Dead puppies

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