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What was it about and what made you argue for so long? Did you win, did it conclude in anyway?

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[โ€“] serfraser@sopuli.xyz 17 points 1 month ago

Let's argue right now and in 10 years we'll come back here to settle it

[โ€“] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Don't know, honestly, but what I do know is that if an argument on the internet lasts more than a couple replies neither party is "winning" in the end, if winning means convincing the other party.

[โ€“] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I think the point of these hopeless internet arguments mainly becomes to convince the third parties who read them.

[โ€“] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

Yep, that's why I stick with some arguments, but realizing when there's nothing to be gained is important as well.

[โ€“] Devanismyname@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Had a guy that used to find me on reddit and respond to everything I said. It was innocent and funny because it was literally just him talking shit out the prequel star wars to me. Not really an argument I guess. He did it for like 3 years. Stopped doing it about 8 years ago. Wonder what happened to that guy.

[โ€“] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 2 points 1 month ago

Jarjar finally caught up to him...

[โ€“] jerkface@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm still having an argument with a particular Peter Sinclair (aka synclap) about the relative merits of the Atari ST vs his App Mac Classic that began circa 1990.

[โ€“] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 month ago

The ST had the Spectre GCR so it could clearly do everything a Mac could and more, plus it was cheaper.

[โ€“] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago

People should stop making these sort of posts

[โ€“] DasKapitalist@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

about how many days are in a week

[โ€“] Alice 2 points 1 month ago

I've never seen anyone win an argument. What would that even look like? What's the goal?

[โ€“] folaht@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

That the EU was morally better than the US. The posts got longer and longer. I gave up after realizing my latest post would be over 4000 words long.

[โ€“] DasKapitalist@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago

in geopolitics morality isn't really a thing

[โ€“] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago

A week, the fact that I love the Evangelion manga but don't like the anime(though I do enjoy the movies. I don't know what it is), and I genuinely have no fucking clue why I kept engaging.

I think we just kinda gave up, in the end. There wasn't ever really a point, it wasn't even a "thing is bad" argument, it was "I just don't really enjoy experiencing thing x way" "here's why you're wrong for that".