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Plural - for those who are never alone

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We get the feeling that most protectors/guardians etc are actively hostile or feel angry etc most of the time, and the person in our group who does this for us is like that sometimes. However, mostly it is emotionless or has low emotion and we were wondering if y'all/y&/you&/you experience that.

We think the reason they are like this is because it allows us to be more clear, honest and leave the extreme emotion that overwhelmed at least one of us behind.

It has gotten angry before and once very upset when something happened without their consent (it wasn't anything big and got resolved quickly).

So yeah, feel free to let us know if y'all'd/y&'d/you&'d/you'd like.

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[โ€“] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

One of my protectors in my system doesn't really have emotions and just pure logistical and analytical. They only come out in specific extreme cases where our systems emotions are extreme enough and nobody can handle what's going on. They understand emotions in a analytical and logistical way but don't really feel them though

[โ€“] SweetCitrusBuzz 2 points 15 hours ago

Ah, this is similar to ours. Thanks for sharing, we appreciate it!