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Resources:

Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.

Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/

Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/

[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map

[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination

[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/

[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/

[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/

[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org

*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on

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With it becoming increasingly clear that Donald Trump will almost certainly win the US election, the moderators and I felt it important to say a few words and direct people to crisis support resources.

We know this outcome is devastating for so many of us. It's difficult to see the outcome we feared come to pass, and it's completely understandable to feel heartbroken, fearful, or even numb. We need to come together as a community now more than ever. We need to support each other. We need to ensure no one is alone in their fear or pain.

The challenges ahead may seem insurmountable and frankly overwhelming, but our voices and actions are still powerful. Staying engaged in your local community, in advocacy, and ensuring our voices are not silenced is more crucial now than ever.

Crisis Support

If you or someone you know needs immediate support, here are some US-based resources (from GLAAD):

We do not consider the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline a safe resource for the trans community due to their history of involving local law enforcement without the caller's consent, which can result in indefinite detainment.

Mutual Aid

Now is the time to lean into local resources and community groups. The people around you, especially other LGBTQ+ advocates and allies, can be a source of great strength and stability. Here are a few ways to connect:

The best mutual aid and support is local. We encourage everyone to research trans advocacy groups around them, local queer facebook pages, and keep connected with their community.

Moving Forward

While the outcome is devastating, our community is strong. It's important to remember that progress in queer and minority rights has always been a story of hard fought battles through adversity. In moments like these, we stand on the shoulders of those who fought the battles before us. This is a time to lean on each other, amplify our voices, and advocate for the protections and rights we deserve. Organize, reach out, educate, and support one another as we move forward. Every action counts — from contacting representatives to showing up for each other in times of need.

Please stay safe and take care of yourself, especially in the coming days.

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Well I guess I can kiss the idea of official HRT, Voice, and Bottom surgery goodbye in the near future, not like I could afford those last two anyway. Hopefully I won't have to look for a new supplier, I have plenty stocked up just in case but you never know.

[–] EmilyIsTrans@lemmy.blahaj.zone 68 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This message was prepared ahead of time, along with one for Kamala Harris. I am sorry that this is the one we had to post. We will be monitoring the community closely over the next few days to redirect anyone in need to appropriate resources.

[–] SturgiesYrFase@lemmy.ml 30 points 1 week ago

I'm Canadian. But my trans sister and her wife live in Oregon. They're planning to visit our parents in December. Hopefully the wheels of fascist government change grind slow enough for them to still get out. I'm not religious, but I'm praying all of you are safe in the months to come.

[–] Oestradiolo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

Thank you for being prepared.

[–] Sasha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Copying my comment from another thread:

I don't know what I can do to help anyone, are there any organisations which directly protect, or perhaps help relocate at risk trans people that I can throw money at?

I had a look through the listed resources but nothing jumped out to me, perhaps I missed something though.

[–] EmilyIsTrans@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm on my phone right now so sorry for the short reply. Will expand when I get the chance (other people please pitch in).

TransLifeline used to offer microgrants until they ran into financial issues, giving them some donations would go a long way.

Both they and The Trevor Project also offer crisis support lines. I'm sure they're busy right now and you should consider giving them your support as well.

[–] Sasha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Thankyou!!!!! ❤️

Reading through some stuff on TransLifeline I came across the Trans Resistance Network who help people relocate to safer states!

[–] GiantChickDicks 2 points 1 week ago

Thank you so much for sharing this. Finding opportunities today to be active and resist has helped me feel less powerless in all of this. I have shared it with some like-minded allies, and it helped boost their morale, too.

[–] jawa21@lemmy.sdf.org 16 points 1 week ago

As angry as I am, I agree that we have to be strong and support each other now more than ever. I can only offer the support I can. For the entire trans community, I made !trans_voice_help@lemmy.blahaj.zone. If you need encouragement in this particular kind of dysphoria, the community is there.

Other things we can do is share tips about being safe. I've been tempted to make a community focused on that, but situations vary so much that it'd be hard to pinpoint good tips.

Stay safe. Please. And know that at least this one internet stranger does in fact give a shit about you. DM me if you need someone to talk to.

[–] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 week ago

I love you all. I'm on the younger end of Lemmy users here and I have never faced anything that feels this life-changing. Maybe even the older users haven't, I'm not sure. Get out of this country if you can, and if you can't, organize organize ORGANIZE. We can only rely on eachother now. Work on yourself as well. We all need some intragroup love now.

[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have no fucking idea the path that my life is gonna take. Things were looking up and all I wanted was to finish the college of my dreams and enjoy my life. I have absolutely no idea what to do now. I do have citizenship in another country that I can flee to but that means leaving my friends, family, and education behind. What's gonna happen :/

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

It feels awful to say, but your highest priority is you. I don't expect blue states to matter given the full red federal control (president, house, senate, SCOTUS), or any of the "little victories" of the election to matter.

I feel it's going to be easier to help others from the outside, and it's only going to get harder to get there as time goes on.

[–] xilliah 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

To join the matrix trans housing network please message me directly here. It's invite only.

Chin up! 🐬

[–] LogGenLore@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Trans woman here in New Mexico. I know I’m in a blue state, but I’m still terrified. Thank you for the Matrix guide, hopefully we can all be there for each other during this time! Sending love to all of the sweet and amazing folks outside of the US for your support and encouragement ❤️❤️🏳️‍⚧️

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

(Originally replied to wrong comment)

I'm gonna be putting a good amount of time into "hardening" my online presence and technology this weekend. I'll probably go through that Matrix guide tomorrow

[–] moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

3 steps back 4 steps forward I guess, that's how progress in general usually goes