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Why does the title need to be worded like that? The worst part is that I've only seen them phrased like this with women celebrities.

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[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 23 points 3 months ago

The correct answer is to block that news site or whatever they call themselves, and don't give them clicks.

[–] GarbageShootAlt2@lemmy.ml 16 points 3 months ago

The whole article is almost certainly demeaning, as you would expect of a celebrity gossip rag.

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 10 points 3 months ago

At least it contains the word β€œshamed”. Shaming someone is usually seen as unfair and judgmental.

[–] m0darn@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Imo the article writers probably feel that they are decrying the way people are demeaning her, but it's just adding visibility for the judgemental.

[–] limitedduck@awful.systems 3 points 3 months ago

It's a double edged sword. Everybody's got a different line for when something descriptive inadvertently becomes prescriptive

[–] Facebones@reddthat.com 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Thats not even a weightlifter body lol.

Incels just think anything other than questionable consent with somebody who looks like a child is actually gay.

It's not, but it will upset viewers and bait people into clicking or sharing.

She did star as a wrestler in a movie not long ago, which I believe I saw during covid and was the only reason I recognized her.

[–] friendlymessage@feddit.org 8 points 3 months ago

This "shaming" or the "shit storm" is usually (and I think here too) just some Incels commenting on Instagram. As Instagram optimizes for maximum engagement, the stupidest and most controversial take is always at the top of the comments, that's how we end up with these idiots getting their platform. And these "news sites" then make a big deal out of a few losers also as engagement bait. This whole system is fucked

[–] Hylactor@sopuli.xyz 7 points 3 months ago

I don't know what this article is about, and I'd rather not engage with this segment of society to find out, but from a quick Google images search it seems like she recently (?) caught flack for a Valentino dress, which was very sheer and through which her nipples could be seen. But anyone who's been paying any attention to fashion at all would know that sheer is very much "in". The latest Yves Saint Laurent line is a prime example of this. As for the quality of her body, which seems to be an unusually frequent topic, why's it anyone's business? Can a woman exist anywhere on this planet and not be objectified and scrutinized like livestock?

[–] apotheotic 5 points 3 months ago

I think it would be best if they drew attention to the people who are being horrible, instead of repeating the horrible things they said. So yeah, you're not wrong for thinking this is demeaning.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Yeaahh I'm gonna need to see the pic so..uhh.. so I can answer your question, yeah that's it.

[–] dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

You can read this article here which has images, I can’t see what they mean though. She looks fire!

I did try to add images directly here but I’m on a low signal area right now.

If you’re curious how to do this yourself, just type the headline into Kagi and then you’re done. I am on mobile so was lazy and screenshotted this post and then copied the text directly from the image to avoid trying, I then wrote all this so kinda defeated my not wanting to type.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Yeah she does! Whoo!

(Of course I was just joke horny-posting, but goddamn, I'm not complaining you delivered lol. They're crazy, she looks great!)

[–] dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Right. I think this is my first time hearing about this person.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago

Same here, I don't really do new movies/tv too much.

Right. I think this is my first time hearing about this person.

[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago

I'm afraid I'm not going to provide a source because that would just make me a hypocrite lol

[–] zante@lemmy.wtf 3 points 3 months ago

Every time those perfect faces or perfect bodies are projected into media, it demeans us all.

[–] SplashJackson@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] EABOD25@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Afraid not. That would be contradictory to what I'm saying lol

[–] SplashJackson@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 months ago

I just mean pictures

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

demeaning? maybe. but like they say, any exposure is good exposure. would not mind seeing her exposed either

[–] SynopsisTantilize@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

Boy do I have news for you lol. Google is your friend on this one.

[–] TheOubliette@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 months ago

In a just world the publisher of this article would need to submit for anti-misogynist reeducation.