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[–] 1stTime4MeInMCU@mander.xyz 67 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Also applies to misogyny in general. You can call out terfs (or just regular anti trans conservative women) for being bigoted shit faces without resorting to gendered attacks.

[–] unlawfulbooger@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] bizarroland@fedia.io 13 points 1 month ago

Any person regardless of their sexuality or gender can be an asshole.

As long as you don't target them for their identity, you can call them out for their assholeshness.

[–] JPAKx4@lemmy.blahaj.zone 59 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I only deadname twitter, am I chill?

[–] 1stTime4MeInMCU@mander.xyz 69 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Corporations aren’t people, they don’t have deadnames or pronouns. Fire away

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 month ago

Citizens United vs Federal Election Commission has entered the chat

(/s if it wasn't obvious)

[–] pmc@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 month ago

I think deadnaming the corporate entity Twitter is fine as long as a certain CEO continues to deadname his living breathing daughter.

[–] Alice 23 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

People will accuse you of condoning a trans person's shitty actions if you gender them correctly, then turn around and use the proper pronouns for literal dictators

[–] moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

yeah it's depressing seeing people decide that it's okay to do asshole things if it is towards asshole people, I understand that you want to be a jerk back but it makes me feel like we lost the progress we just made towards not doing the asshole thing

[–] OrnateLuna@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

At least the issue for me isn't the being an asshole to an asshole it's the throwing other people under the bus while being an asshole to the asshole.

[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Looks at Caitlyn Jenner We recognize your status as woman, but you are now on this council. Do not take a seat.

I will however misgender cispeople who are openly bigoted, as a "Uno Reverse Card" on their "Transvestigation" nonsense...

Wait I just realized that term is a pun on "Transvestite" and Transvestism has literally nothing to be with being trans... If I were to wear a woman's clothing I'm not wearing the opposite gender's clothing for kicks, because I AM a woman, god damn it htese mother fuckers.

Also it's okay to deadname a corporation, or Jesse Mcree, or Dr. Robotnik. Probably shouldn't deadname Mr. Satan, the name Hercule is on fucking life support and that's probably for the best.... But don't be that dick who says they're boycotting DBZ because Vegeta deadnames Goku by calling him "Kakarot"

I have sadly seen that argument before...

Wait what the fuck am I talking about anymore?

[–] jabjoe@feddit.uk 11 points 1 month ago

Exactly how I felt about those pictures of Andrew Tate in swim trunks with seamingly no budgie to smuggle. Him being shitty to trans, doesn't make it OK to mock him for maybe being trans. Makes us no better.

[–] Gladaed@feddit.org 9 points 1 month ago

Yes, but actually no. Using deadnames of companies is much more acceptable than for people.

[–] SunlitSorceress@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I mean, there's misgendering and misgnedering, isn't there?

Accidentally calling a woman a man on the internet coz u didn't know is not a big deal.

It can be something liberals use for their witch hunts.

[–] laffytaffer@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago

misgnedering

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Accidentally calling a woman a man on the internet coz u didn’t know is not a big deal.

Calling people men by default is sexist.

[–] Alice 1 points 1 month ago

Not advocating witch hunts but it's a bit weird to call someone a man if you don't know them. I see people on Tumblr a lot call trans women "man" and "dude" and then go "how was I supposed to know??" when corrected. Why make up genders for them in the first place?

[–] beefbot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

Ugh but it’s so EASY to upset anti-trans people who are so invested in hurting others by using this tactic, and they deserrrrrve it so much

[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago

But its still funny how violently some people react to something that they do to other people every day(double standards)