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How would you feel if a person you've slept with asks for money after the deed (sopuli.xyz)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Kujo_D2407@sopuli.xyz to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Pretty much the title - I met a girl on Hinge, we decided to go grab a drink, then one thing left to another and we ended up sleeping together.

Now, the girl mentioned that she would have to see the doc if I went down on her. But I was drunk and didn't pay much attention.

When I mentioned it was also something she wanted, she agreed to take half, but also, that I have to pay her cab expenses home.

Would you or would you not feel like this person is an escort? It feels so strange being asked to pay after having sex. Or am i the only one?

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[–] ninjan@lemmy.mildgrim.com 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If you went down on her? And see the doc? Was she in the porn industry perhaps and thus required to get tested after unprotected sex (which technically getting head from someone is and it can transmit stuff like herpes)? That's the only explanation I can come up with and if so then you could've asked if she'd need to see the doc if you had sex without going down on her, or used a "condom blanket". Still I'd see that as a business expense on her side and not something you should pay.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 3 points 1 year ago

Also gonorrhea, syphilis, or chlamydia (and other NGUs).