Men's Liberation
This community is first and foremost a feminist community for men and masc people, but it is also a place to talk about men’s issues with a particular focus on intersectionality.
Rules
Everybody is welcome, but this is primarily a space for men and masc people
Non-masculine perspectives are incredibly important in making sure that the lived experiences of others are present in discussions on masculinity, but please remember that this is a space to discuss issues pertaining to men and masc individuals. Be kind, open-minded, and take care that you aren't talking over men expressing their own lived experiences.
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- Build upon the OP
- Discuss concepts rather than semantics
- No low effort comments
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Do not call other submitters' personal experiences into question.
No bigotry
Slurs, hate speech, and negative stereotyping towards marginalized groups will not be tolerated.
No brigading
Do not participate if you have been linked to this discussion from elsewhere. Similarly, links to elsewhere on the threadiverse must promote constructive discussion of men’s issues.
Recommended Reading
- The Will To Change: Men, Masculinity, And Love by bell hooks
- Politics of Masculinities: Men in Movements by Michael Messner
Related Communities
!feminism@beehaw.org
!askmen@lemmy.world
!mensmentalhealth@lemmy.world
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There is some very moving art for me, and i do feel like i supress things at least a little sometimes (like if a song or movie is really hitting i might tear up but not start crying), and like thinking about certain things makes me very sad (a handful of memories, thinking about all the injustice and suffering in the world) and i've cried about those before. Or like sometimes the actual feeling of care towards others will swell in me if i think about it enough. But that doesn't really say whether on average i experience emotions as strongly as normal or if i'm suppressing them. I know i suppress them at least a little sometimes (other times i've definitely let them loose) but it doesn't feel like that much so it's hard to know whether it is a lot of suppression or just having less strong emotions