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[โ€“] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel like there are no happy options for me. There are only least-bad. I have a million different ways to spend my time and energy and they're mostly lesser-evil choices. If I do the things I want to do, then my family suffers. If I do the things my family wants/needs to do, then I suffer. Regardless, a large majority of my decisions are filled with suffering. I don't see any end to this.

I too find myself weighing a lot of pros and cons. It helps to have a mental idea of what your ethical code is.