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[–] TrontheTechie@infosec.pub 65 points 1 year ago (7 children)

This is why I don’t fuck guys who “don’t pay attention to politics”.

That means one thing, and it isn’t that they are blissfully unaware of the day to day happenings in their town, county, state, region, country, or planet of residence.

[–] medgremlin@lemmy.sdf.org 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It depends on why they don't pay attention to politics. Personally, I kind of have to go ostrich-mode and bury my head in the sand when school gets stressful because I just don't have the mental bandwidth to deal with both. I'm not going to judge someone too harshly for protecting their mental health from the absolute shitshow that is the American political landscape.

[–] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

this. you can pay little attention to politics without being a "centrist" who isn't actually a centrist. news can be depressing as fuck, i'm hella glad i strongly limited my consumption of them, but that doesn't mean i'm gonna start both-sidesing shit. (with the exception of tankies vs nazis, because those two are in fact the same authoritarian, anti-west, bigoted crap under different flags that love to larp against each other)

[–] morrowind@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

That's what centrism is supposed to mean anyway. You don't have to go into the whole both-sides-are-bad nonsense to be a centrist.

[–] ophelia@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

This is my go-to response whenever anyone wants to start talking politics with me. Mainly because whenever someone wants to talk politics it's usually not because they're liberal and I really hate talking with people who just want to prove that their opinion is the right one.

[–] Plus_a_Grain_of_Salt 11 points 1 year ago

I'll admit I've used it for similar reasons. What I really should be saying is "I'm sorry, but I don't want to talk about this right now." Maybe I'll even be brave and say "I don't want to talk about this with you." but it's rare for me to find a person I don't want to hear at all from. That usually comes up because they've already made their arguments, and I've already accepted or rebuttal the points to my own satisfaction. At that point they'll talk themselves into circles looking for justification for parts of their stance, but unable to articulate it themselves. I'll listen to anyone's views at least once, given I'm in the right mindset, but I still wouldn't date someone I don't morally agree with. Life partners should have higher standards than conversation partners, and aligning values is a bare minimum for relationships.

[–] IlllIIIlllIlllI@programming.dev 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This 100%. To not care about politics means to not care about how the entity with a monopoly on violence wants to take your money against your will and allocate it. If you don’t care about that, then you and I are not going to get along.

[–] Bo7a@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

wants to take your money against your will and allocate it

Speak for yourself

I pay my taxes with a smile because they mean my neighbours won't ever be likely show up at my door to steal from me when they don't have enough to eat. And that my brother can have his cancer treatments without paying the insane costs associated with those treatments. And that my mother can enjoy her garden for the last 20 years of her life instead of working until she croaks.

[–] SpicyPeaSoup@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] TrontheTechie@infosec.pub 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] Onionizer@geddit.social 2 points 1 year ago

OMG your lower forehead is so "sexy 😍😍😍😋😤!! !

[–] argv_minus_one 5 points 1 year ago

Or they're pretending to be blissfully unaware, but secretly hate you for being an independent woman.

[–] stappern@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago

meh i wouldnt assume they are conservative just because they say that

[–] SimplyATable@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Eh, not necessarily. It could mean a variety of different things