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Another reason to leave Reddit: I forgot how hostile it can be (self.chat)

submitted 1 year ago by xray to c/chat

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I've mostly left reddit and switched to beehaw, but I posted on somewhat of a niche tech-related subreddit today since there really isn't a community for that here yet. And wow, I got instantly downvoted twice and the first comment response was rude and hostile. All I posted was a feature suggestion for software that I thought would be useful and that a good amount of people would like based on other feedback I've heard. This is not the sort of topic that should be controversial or aggravating, and it wasn't like I made an ignorant post suggesting a feature that already existed or otherwise wasn't well researched.

This type of instantly hostile response has happened numerous times on reddit for various different topics, but I just haven't posted for a while, so I forgot just how shitty it can feel. It makes me really appreciate how friendly and respectful the community is here on Beehaw and on Mastodon. People seem to have good faith in one another similar to how the internet used to be in the old days.

Have you had similar experiences with Reddit and similarly opposite experiences here on Beehaw/Lemmy?

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[–] juni@skein.city 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This very much resonates with me as well. As someone with anxiety issues, it's the reason why I almost explicitly lurked on Reddit. But I feel much more comfortable conversing and contributing to the fediverse (especially Beehaw) due to how friendly and conversational it is comparative to the mainstream, proprietary social media sites.

[–] Ignacio 1 points 1 year ago

I was a chronic lurker on Reddit. I remember only posting on r/r4r, r/ADHD and r/StratteraRX most of the time. I don't remember having posted on any other subreddit. About commenting, the sample was wider, but still not significant. Two years on Reddit and 2800 karma. Fuck karma.