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What are red flags you look out for in a relationship? (piefed.social)
submitted 3 days ago by OpenStars@piefed.social to c/AskUSA@discuss.online
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Rather than put my answers, I will leave space for you to jump in directly with yours:-).

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[–] zero_spelled_with_an_ecks@programming.dev 3 points 3 days ago

That reminds me of scammers that make the initial contact egregiously obvious so they only get the most gullible. Like the person is fishing for the people that will put up with their worst behaviors. Or anchoring problematic to innocuous behaviors to diminish "problematic" in the future. Could be intentional or subconscious. Good red flag to have.