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submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by spujb@lemmy.cafe to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Lemmy is a worse platform for women than Reddit was EDIT this link is an OLD POST that contains my thesis on the state of lemmy and is not the context of the much more recent comment in the screenshot. sorry for any confusion caused by this juxtaposition, my main goal with having this linked is to expose how nothing has improved

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[–] Aatube@kbin.melroy.org 23 points 4 days ago (1 children)

IMO the context does absolutely make up for it. It's a reply to:

Wait so the idea is do not sleep with any men? Even men who support your views and rights? This just seems like it would radicalize more incels or generate more sexism. Like the average person who did everything they could is going to go on a date and be told “I’m not have sex until the government is fixed” which would make me say “ok, well, hit me up in 4 years.”

The reply got downvoted because it virtually doesn't address the argument. I read the parent comment as "this course will only inflame society's opinions on women". I agree that this doesn't mean SA would be warranted.

[–] Didros 14 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Yikes. The context does not help.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

isn’t it funny? “stop radicalizing me! stop radicalizing me!!!”

[–] Didros 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

fair but have you considered the optics of saying you are tired :/ you seem to be implying that it’s all men making you tired (i didn’t see a “not all but some” disclaimer 😬) and i must say you saying such things on a platform with 99% men is more likely to harm than further the movment ..

(deep sarcasm)

[–] AwakenedAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

but what if this comment radicalizes men!?! I think you probably should add at least 10x more "not all men" disclaimers than actual text just to make sure not to push them into advocating against basic human rights /s