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It's a simple solution; don't hate. If you disagree, find a more creative way to express it besides "fuck off".
Try this one: say "I hope the rest of your day is as pleasant as you are"
The real pro move is to learn to just roll your eyes, and walk away.
Or block them, and walk away.
It makes certain angry-on-the-internet types so so SO mad when you just shrug and ignore them, but alas, it's a lost art since everyone likes being mad about everything all the time now.
I agree to the least extent. I agree that when people express their hate, it doesn't bother me. However, I'm a smartass. I always have something to say about everything, which, fairly, I should work on. But I'm also a pretty skilled smartass. I've resorted to translating the smartass statement and then taking it word-for-word serious. It upsets people so much
You can't be serious. That's nothing
Well, you seem like are person that I don't want to speak with even online. Have you thought you might be the prlem?
Then don't
Well you can hate plenty without saying "fuck off". You can stalk them and report anything they say that plausibly crosses the line. You can play passive-aggressive games. You can downvote. You can argue in poor faith.
Plenty of hateful ways to express yourself within the bounds of the rules. It's arguably the path to success.