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An admin of this instance, Nutomic, is a transphobe and has no right to be able to ban trans people from this community. (lemmy.ml)
submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/transgender@lemmy.ml
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I'm calling for https://lemmy.ml/u/Beaver@lemmy.ca, the most prolific user of the transgender comm here on lemmy.ml, to be immediately unbanned and nutomic to be removed as admin. It is good and correct to leak the DMs of transphobes.

@dessalines@lemmy.ml @JoeBidet@lemmy.ml @cypherphunks

edit: you can find more info from kristinas post here and beavers post here

edit 2: proof, also beaver was banned from the whole instance modlong

edit 3: For trans people looking for a safer instance, I suggest Hexbear. They have a very active trans user base and are extremely supportive.

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[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 19 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I'm just an occasional lurker here so I'm pretty out of the loop, but wouldn't it make more sense to just migrate to an instance without an openly transphobic admin? Isn't being able to do that supposed to be one of the big advantages of a federated service?

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 11 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

but wouldn’t it make more sense to just migrate to an instance without an openly transphobic admin

That's really just too passive for me at least, much prefer to occupy a space and make the transphobes leave.

[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Is that even possible in this case? Seems like you're guaranteed to lose a fight with an admin unless you've got another admin on your side.

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 7 points 3 months ago

I have had broadly positive interactions with dessalines in the past, and I don't envy him the situation he is now placed in.

I prefer to possibly lose a fight than give up before it starts.

[–] rmuk@feddit.uk 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Unfortunately, there's no friction-free way to migrate. On Mastodon, for example, you can migrate between instances by exchanging codes between your old and new accounts and, in time, your posts, comments, memberships, followers, etc will move across automatically. On Lemmy, however, that's not an option and you start from fresh with on the new instance.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago

You can import/export settings (which includes which communities you follow). Although I've heard some instances have issues and it doesn't include you posts/comments/etc.