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Are there a lot of women who like submissive men ? (lemm.ee)

submitted 10 months ago by DelilahBlack@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Or, would you say most women actually perfer submissive men?

To be more specific, I'm talking about men who are submissive in their role in the relationship as a partner and also sexually.

It's an interesting, I guess, maybe taboo sort of topic that I would like opinions on.

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[–] dick_stitches@lemm.ee 27 points 10 months ago (2 children)

There are going to be as many opinions on this as there are women who like having sex with men. Some women like dominant men, some like submissive men, some like doms on even days and subs on odd days. Some only like doms on a full moon. Im using silly examples, but the point is human sexuality can’t come anywhere close to fitting into binaries like this. Individuals have their preferences, and no two individuals’ preferences are going to be the same.

[–] GammaGames 15 points 10 months ago

Wise words, thanks dick_stitches 🙏

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 3 points 10 months ago

Actually on the question of “do you like submissive men?”, since it’s a yes or no question there’s going to be two opinions on this.

I’m hoping to find a woman who likes pedantic men, myself.