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Menopause

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'Menopause isn't really that bad'...said no woman ever.

For those who are approaching or experiencing 'the change' (think reverse puberty), a time where hormone levels decline either through the aging process or by medical/surgical means.

Menopause and Perimenopause (the transitional time before Menopause) are unique to every person, and while there's no one-size fits all, we support each other on this roller coaster ride of wacked out hormones, absurd mood swings and random sweaty hot flashes.

Be kind. Be respectful. We are all in this together!


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I related to this article a little too much. I, too, began to collapse under stress in my mid-40s.

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[–] TheUtopianCat@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's not odd to ask at all! I am late-diagnosed with ADHD and ASD, and yes, my symptoms did get worse with menopause. It was actually the worsening of my symptoms that led me to seek diagnosis.

Great to hear that you got diagnosed. It's not always the easiest thing to do, get done and/or finding a good doctor.

[–] Mohkia@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm wondering about this myself because I have always had issues with things but the past year has just been...out of control I guess? Some things my boss said to me after almost getting fired kind of got me thinking. I don't know, I've looked into it and want to at least get checked. Just in case. And I am pretty sure I have dyscalculia I've never gotten diagnosed with so might do that too.

How did you even go about getting a diagnosis at a later age if I might ask. I've read it can be hard. I know I need to go see a doctor for physical stuff and might ask to see a therapist but the mental health kind of sucks with my insurance and hospital group. It's been years. Somebody needs to drag me there kicking and screaming like a toddler. Lol. Been trying to make myself make an appointment for the past 4 months.

[–] TheUtopianCat@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

How did you even go about getting a diagnosis at a later age

I live in Toronto, and there is an (free) adult neurodevelopmental clinic in my city. I'm very fortunate.