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I'm curious in what ways you think we could improve? Would you care to expand upon this?
I'll try, hope this makes sense. As a leftist space, Beehaw is a bit of an echo chamber. On its own, this is kind of a neutral value, maybe even a positive one (we've seen with brutal transparency what "free speech" platforms actually are). But echo chambers are vulnerable to the creeping growth of some inhospitable characteristics (being dismissive, derisive, reductive, etc.) toward ideas outside the narrow lane of the chamber. We treat conclusions as foregone and perceived opposition as hostile. And that's the main thrust: I firmly believe that internet culture, broadly, mistakes and/or conflates things like ignorance, diverging personal experience, or even sufficient inarticulateness as opposition and treats it accordingly.
One of the most frequent examples I see here is the devolution of a minor disagreement (there was a relatively recent example concerning the fairness of a news headline) into a hyperbolic declaration of someone's overall character (e.g., "because of how you've conducted yourself in this conversation, or the ideas you've expressed, you probably would have supported the Nazis" as a demonstrative example). At other times, I've seen relatively harmless stubbornness responded to with blocks or bans, which felt extreme to me despite the fact that the stubbornness was indeed frustrating and potentially (but not actually, yet) malicious.
I want to be explicit that I don't think any inclusive community is well-served by being tolerant of harmful ideas. Harmful ideas should be countered, blocked, banned, censored, and burned in a fire. But I'd like to see non-hostile opposition, ignorance, diverging personal experiences, etc. treated with more cordiality and grace up until the point that they are effectively exposed as malicious. I think there are good people with bad ideas (I've been one of them and expect to be again) who could learn and grow in a community like this with the right balance.
Thanks for elaborating. It's tough to decide where is 'too far' and when someone is behaving in a way that if left unchecked results in a slow decline into a space where nice people no longer want to participate. We tend to err on the side of caution because we've seen how evaporative cooling can ruin a nice place, but with strong checks/balances to try and reduce/minimize inappropriately stepping in, as well as inappropriate deletions and bans. We're human though, we make mistakes, and ultimately it's important to us that we create a space we haven't been able to find elsewhere and sometimes there just aren't enough people with enough emotional bandwidth to do the messy work of differentiating between someone who's just stubborn and misinformed, and someone who's being malicious (let alone issues that crop up with neurodivergence and not understanding what nice behavior is).
I truly do wish we had enough bandwidth to provide more cordiality and grace to everyone. Speaking of which, if you or anyone else who does have emotional bandwidth, extra time, and passion for seeing places like this exist on the internet and wishes to step in and help us stick to our principles, we'd love the help 💜
I should acknowledge how easy it is for me to commentate from my position as spectator! You and the rest of the team have very clearly put a lot of research and thought into cultivating Beehaw and it shows. I'm very lucky that this was my gateway to the fediverse during last summer's exodus.
I wish I could volunteer to help but I'm rather flaky and inconsistent with my online time, as it's necessarily well down my list of priorities. If that still sounds like a situation I could contribute through, let me know.