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Do you really need to explain this to a child?
I would only if they ask me, or if I see a clear and worrying behavioral problem. Children should do as teachers say, within reason- if the teacher is abusing their position in any way, I don't see how knowing social status helps a child. It's more important they know their rights.
To answer the age part of your question at least, if the child understands what kings and princesses are about (very popular in children's stories and play pretends, I'm not a royalist) then they are old enough to understand what social status is imo.
I never said that you do. I asked how you could explain it.
I think it would be very helpful to help a kid understand why some behaviors are only okay in certain contexts. IE It's okay for a parent to yell at a kid but if a kid yells back they get in trouble. If a kid can understand that authority is not always justified, then it can help them by ensuring they don't blindly follow authority figures when they are wrong or acting maliciously.
Sure, that's why there is so much talk about fairness, and I mentioned it's more important they know their rights. It's easier to explain a child they need to be treated fairly by everyone, and/or that nobody has the right to touch their body if they don't want to for example, than to go about explaining abuse of authority.
If you are after an ELI5 on social status I'd say it's more like a ranking of likeability and authority. The more authority you hold, the higher your status, and the same goes for being likeable. If nobody likes you and you have no authority over anyone... or anything, then you are going to be very low in status.