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So what made yall figure it out? (self.lgbtq_plus)
submitted 1 year ago by StrahdVonZarovich to c/lgbtq_plus
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Was having this conversation with some new friends earlier and was curious. When did you guys figure out your sexuality/identity or whatever? Was there a person that helped you or a particular moment or event?

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[–] Witch 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

"Everyone's gotta be a little bi, right?" -> "Wait a minute...."

Ultimately I still haven't figured out my sexuality. Went from self-identifying as bi as a kid, realizing I'm a lesbian as a teenager, and coming to terms with grey-asexuality, grey-aromanticism, and genderfluidity as an adult. I have opted for queer as a label most days because it's just. Easier, though IRL people know me as just that lesbian that doesn't date.