I came out when I was 49. It took a while to come out to myself. In contrast, coming out to family and friends was easy. Most everyone was supportive, although Mom doesn't really want to talk about it.
The downside of growing up in the 70's and 80's was society was sh1t for LGBTs, the upside was when I did finally come out, there was really no risk of getting kicked out. If someone didn't like it, they were invited to go to h3ll. ๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐
I use the VIM plugin in my IDE. The best of both worlds!