As a man myself, I fully agree. It's also exhausting as an empathetic man to deal with this pervasive pseudo masculine enculturation.
I've found a nice home with Mint Debian edition. It has the right balance between stable and current that I prefer.
Jellyfin does.
I use jellyfin to host everything; movies, shows, books. It can tag matadata and id most books fairly well. But do not use it's built in reader. I don't know about comics though. I can then easily download whatever book to any device connected to the jellyfin server and use local software to read it.
I usually just use librera reader as it's open source and highly customizable. But it does have it's glitches.
All of these recommendations are great. I'm always pleased to see so many cinemaphiles. I like lists, and have found many of my favorites from them.
Ebert's Great Movies List is perfect.
The Criterion Closet Picks, see the greats talk about the greats.
The Janus Collection has a lifetime of stuff.
The only place I found it was on myanonamouse. It's a pdf with side-by-side greek english with translations by Richard Fitzpatrick.
Is this the book?
Jellyfin is great but has some issues that can make it annoying. The 3rd party clients are often better than the normal interface. The server is easy to set up. So I can recommend all of it.
Honestly though, just because it isn't updated doesn't mean it is not great. I always revert to Clementine myself. Still use it daily and love it. There is an updated variant called strawberry which is updated and works great, but the remote doesn't work.
All these suggestions are great. I'll just add that qbittorrent has a built in search feature that is often outstanding. And rutracker is great for music torrents.
Honorary mentions to:
Ubuntu Christian Edition
Ubuntu Satanic Edition
And
Hannah Montana Linux
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