Openmindedskeptic

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Closeup photo of two light-grey long-haired house cats who are standing directly underneath a swing-arm desk lamp. They have long, luxurious whiskers and luxuriant "ruffs" of fur on their upper chests. They are both facing the camera, one behind the other, but they are looking directly up into the light bulb. The cat in front has a serene expression on its face and its eyes reflect the light. The cat in back appears dazed by the light, and its jaw is slightly open, exposing its teeth. Its eyes are not visible, as its head is leaned very far back.

[–] Openmindedskeptic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Much like I ignored reddit usernames in the comment section, I tend to ignore which instance a post is coming from while scrolling. So I subscribe to all the relevant ones, and just scroll from my "subscribed" in my instance.

[–] Openmindedskeptic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Well, it's easier said than done, and processing guilt/regret is also easier said than done lol.

But hearing it a lot of times and telling yourself a lot and pretending someone else you love very much did the same thing and how you wouldn't think nearly as badly of them for the same thing, helps.

[–] Openmindedskeptic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

First off, I'm glad to know you're reconsidering your previous actions. While it's a good thing to regret and genuinely feel remorse for things you in hindsight maybe should not have done, beating yourself up over it won't really help you, and all you can ever do is change your present and future, not the past.

Now: as for my opinions on that sort of thing, I have a few. LOL

On a smaller scale/short term, fake stories are mostly an annoyance depending on where they're being promoted as real; in some cases as in subreddits/places that are attempting to help people with serious problems, it can be more problematic. There was a sub called justnomil about in-laws who were causing problems in people's marriages. There were some creative writers who seemed to be going through some awful abuse, and were describing 'found memories' of previous sexual abuse in somewhat graphic detail. The problem with that is there were people in that sub with actual traumatic SA in their past who read those things and felt deeply for the OP, who were devastated and to a degree re-traumatized by the fact that they had invested their emotions and energy into something that wasn't true.

On the larger scale, though, fake stories can be of a societal problem in a subtle but real way.

People form their world views from everything around them, including stuff they read online, even if they aren't trying to let that stuff influence them. So if they're reading a ton of (fake) stories presented as real where, say, someone's girlfriend/wife is cheating on them, or cops egregiously abusing their power, or men beating up their SO's, or trans people littering, they may not on the surface believe all of them are true, and may doubt many of them, but sort of the whole glob (lol IDK what to call it) of those type of stories will subconsciously form part of their opinion about cops, men, women, trans people, or who or whatever.

People like to think that they're above that but our brains are tricky things and process stuff below the surface that we don't realize.

So that's why I get soooo frustrated with fakers online. It seems like just a minor thing, but even known fictional stories can shape society, so fake stories that people actually think may have happened, or could have happened, are IMO at least that powerful.

I suspect it's that in some way people who write those understand the power/influence they have and it fills a void in them, but the problem is the way they are filling that void or need to feel important (which is a natural need that all of us have) is unhelpful or potentially harmful to others.

Anyway, cheers. Thanks for the question.

A lot of groups coordinate on discord; they'll have a template & an area they want to target. Some of the larger groups may have thousands of people. It depends on the group, but in one I've seen, they organize people by birthdate for some of the designs, and by color for the larger part of the design, and let people go.

There's a way you can get an overlay of the intended design on the r/place canvas, supposedly, but it didn't work for me. But like they'll have templates or whatever.

One of the largest groups is "the void" and normally it just tries to black out the canvas. This year it looks like they're helping out the fuckspez black and white design mostly.

 

Re: the rules on the side: "Alt-Text for vision-impaired users in the post body or in the comments is highly encouraged. Just pretend you are describing a photo to someone on the phone."

Some instances have "alternate text" boxes that don't show up for everyone but allow screen readers to read it, but if not, just put it in the body. Or as a comment.

[–] Openmindedskeptic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's alternate text for people with visual impairments/screen readers.

I wrote it.

 

A group of four female athletes are in various states of repose after completing a relay event at the Olympics. Three are looking toward the upper right at something offscreen; the woman on the left has anxious tears in her eyes. The fourth young woman is facing the woman on the left who is crying and comforting her. All are wearing orange racing tank tops and blue athletic shorts. They all have long hair that is either partially up and braided or completely braided.

 
 
 
 

[This is a close-up photo of two Japanese Waxwing birds perched on the bare branches of a Rowan tree that has no leaves. Only sparse clumps of bright red berries are on the branches. The bird on the bottom branch has a red berry in its beak and the bird on the higher branch is looking down at a clump of berries to its lower left. The birds and berries are in very sharp focus in the foreground. The background is blurred out, which makes the birds and berries look like they are isolated on a canvas. The background is a very light tan color which makes the berries and birds stand out more.]

 
 
 
 
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