Nach

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[–] Nach@midwest.social 5 points 4 months ago

Yep, I recognize some of what you are experiencing. You now have a new dimension to your relationship that you have to adjust to. 7 weeks is very new and things will change rapidly over the first 18 months. Things will get better. Schedules change . Babies eventually sleep through the night, take longer naps, etc. It might sound hokey, but consider scheduling whatever you are missing (sex, cuddles, heart to hearts) so she knows what you are thinking about and what you need. This works for us and it leads to less hurt feelings if I say "feel like sex tonight?". Even if she says "not tonight" then I know and don't get my feelings hurt later when I get shot down trying to initiate with no warning.

Is she pumping too or just only on the boob? If she's pumping then offer to bottle feed the midnight session so she can get some good unbroken rest. This was a game changer for us once we figured it out. Sleeping 5+ hours sleep is much different than getting woken up over and over.

[–] Nach@midwest.social 1 points 7 months ago

Ubiquity also has some managed switches with sfp+ ports. They are more expensive than the one listed above however.

[–] Nach@midwest.social 3 points 7 months ago

Start googling. Hardware or Software based? How techy are you? RAID should not be considered for backup. Think of it as an individual drive. Still needs a backup. Personally I use a ZFS pool in my Linux homelab that's been rock solid. However the pucker factor would be high if a drive fails.

  1. Depends on how you set them up. There are calculators online that can estimate this for you.

  2. I used NAS drives bc they're expected to be spinning a lot.

  3. No. You will see better performance on average compared to your slowest drive.

  4. I have no relevant experience with specific hardware. For a general base of knowledge figure out what RAID type you want to use. Look at what ZFS or btrfs can do in this space. Same for unraid.

[–] Nach@midwest.social 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

YSK - No one needs a manual prostate screening. The PSA blood test is the standard of care now.

[–] Nach@midwest.social 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

PDF link doesn't work for me

[–] Nach@midwest.social 10 points 10 months ago

I bought a really nice Benchmade pocket knife. I like the way it opens Amazon packages

[–] Nach@midwest.social 9 points 10 months ago

Yay for my state

[–] Nach@midwest.social 4 points 1 year ago

Good info. Thanks for sharing. Might have to try it. Still on the fence.

[–] Nach@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hope you are right but I'm not convinced they think that they made a mistake with issue 1. I know LaRose is trying to save face but all I've heard is blah blah blah, outside influence, and they needed more time to get the message out. They have to know, right?

[–] Nach@midwest.social 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Are you kidding? There will be a special legislative session and a bill in his desk to repeal before the weekend is out.

[–] Nach@midwest.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Some hotels charge a hidden "resort fee" and $20 a night for parking. So yes I really could see a hotel charging a fee to charge your car.

[–] Nach@midwest.social 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)

We once stayed at an Airbnb in Florida. The property owners were not local. They had an employee come give us an orientation to the house upon check in. During the check-in he had us read the electric meter. When we left we had to read the meter again. The electric rate was in the rental contract so it became part of our final bill. It was a little strange but it made sense that we would pay for what we used.

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