It's easy to forget outside of communities like this how low tech literacy actually is.
I think I don't understand probably 95% of how the internet works and I'm fairly sure that I'm above average in my general understanding.
If the Fediverse really wants to break into the mainstream, and I'm neither saying it does or it should, then these things need to become easier and straightforward.
Joining a server isn't hard, but finding content outside of the server you have chosen can be. Lemmy seems to be better than Mastodon here, but still.
People don't care about federation as such. They want their social network and they want it all, regardless of which server it sits on, and they want it easy.
On my first play through, I completely misunderstood Mass Effect and basically played it like a standard shooter. Hardly used power, didn't talk to anyone and more or less just went from main mission to main mission.
The amount of stuff I missed out on, in retrospect, is staggering. I'm so glad I gave this game another try because I really did not understand what all the fuss was about.