Fluffybirb

Thank you for this update, and I hope you guys are all doing OK. Look after yourselves! And thank you for this space. It's the first place in ages I actually have felt I want to post or comment on something in anticipation of a friendly discussion instead of worrying about trolls or aggressive responses :)

If it helps, I love tone indicators. It saves me a lot of time puzzling over a comment and wondering if it's sarcastic, genuine, disengenous, etc. It's hard enough for me to tell in meatspace, let alone in text only. It's why I also love gifs and emojis - they help me express, and in turn also understand, exactly what tone people are trying to convey. 😊

I would encourage use of indicators to help out those of us who struggle in this area. 😁

Thank you for this, another great read. I've also enjoyed reading through the comments and discussions on it and feel like I'm getting more of a handle on the balance you're trying to strike here. I really appreciate all the clear, engaging and comprehensive comments. They're giving me a lot of food for thought! :)

Thank you so much for this!

No worries! :) thank you for replying.

We never saw anything like that in school (I'm in the UK), or were shown dead bodies/people dying/anything like that. The closest we came was travelling to places like the Somme and a lot about the world war.

TW, unpleasant content

And honestly? I **didn't ** cope well. I have autism, ADHD and OCD (the former two I've only been diagnosed with in my 30s), which makes it very hard to filter out, compartmentalise or be 'thick skinned' about anything, despite working most of my life on it. I had a really, really hard time. It made my OCD go through the roof, I lived in constant fear and anxiety, and suffered with intrusive thoughts and images of the things I'd seen.

Unfortunately, not everyone is able to process that kind of imagery or story without it having a massive detrimental impact on their life.

In this case, I thought I was going to read a story about a bartender dealing with a patron he didn't want in the bar, on an instance that I thought was safe from shocking content like that. Having a picture like that slapped in my face was, as I said, incredibly upsetting, and I had to spend time processing and dealing with the emotions it brought up (see disabilities above).

All I'm asking for it a content warning is all, so people can either choose not to look, or at least mentally prepare themselves. :) I hope that helps answer your question a bit, and I'm sorry if it's rambly!

Edited to add: I didn't mention it in my original reply because I didn't want to be speaking on behalf of others, but there are probably a lot of people out there for whom stumbling across that sort of image would be way more traumatic for a variety of reasons. So my concern wasn't just for me, if that makes sense?

Trigger warning - please be aware of this before following the link to the first article

I read the first article about the bartender and it shows, with no warning, a historical poster that seemingly has a photo of a dead child on it. I cannot unsee that. I would never seek that sort of thing out.

I thought I was just going to read a story about a bartender. Now I feel extremely distressed on a day when my anxiety was already through the roof and I need to start work.

Please, please put content warnings up for that sort of horrifying imagery.

Aw heck yea! I love boost! 🎉

Ahh I see, thank you so much for clarifying! I started working through a free HTML/CSS course yesterday, so I'm hoping I'll be able to refine it properly, and then I will absolutely release it for anyone else to use if they like ^_^ It's just at the moment it's so rudimentary and surface level there will be lots of hidden issues around the place that I'm not experienced enough to foresee :)

I'm sorry (and apologies for struggling to interpret your comments, I'm AuDHD and find it hard to read between the lines). When it's cleaned up I'll be more than willing to share it, but right now it's probably got loads of mistakes and issues because I still have a lot more learning to do :)

I just wanted to share where I've got to with beehaw and see if people like it; I didn't mean to upset anyone!

Thank you! ^_^

Ah I see! I'd rather not share the CSS anywhere publicy (certainly not yet) because it's just too embarrassing! 😂